Kukhona inqwaba yezinganekwane ezihlobene nesipiliyoni sokuqala socansi, okungukuthi, ngokulahlekelwa ubuntombi . Wazifaka ngokucacile abantu abangaqondi le nkinga nhlobo.
1. Uma uneminyaka yobudala, ubukhulu be-hymen buyanda, okusho ukuthi ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi kuzohambisana nokuhlupheka okuqinile.
Lokhu akulona iqiniso, ngoba ubukhulu, ubungako nobukhulu be-hymen yintombazane ngayinye ngabanye. Ngakho-ke, kholwa ukuthi le nganekwane ayifanele.
2. Ungaqala ukuya ocansini kusukela eminyakeni eyi-14-15.
I-hymen isebenza njengesibambiso phakathi kwezitho zobulili zesifazane kanye nemvelo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi kuvimbela ukungena kwezifo ezehlukene ezingxenyeni zangaphakathi zocansi, kuze kube yilapho kuhlanganiswa i-microflora ezovikela umzimba wesifazane. Kuze kube neminyaka engu-18, akunconywa ukuthi ube nobulili, ngoba ngesikhathi sokulala ucansi lungashukunyiswa ngenxa yendlala encane ye-epithelium. Ukulimala okunjalo kungasiza ekwenzeni izinqubo ezihlukahlukene zokuvuvukala, kanye nokungabi nabantwana .
Ukuqaliswa kwesikhathi eside kobudlelwano bocansi kuyingozi empilweni.
Amantombazane amaningi akholelwa ukuthi izimpumputhe ebusweni bakhe zivele ngenxa yokuthi useyintombi, kodwa akunjalo. Zonke izinsolo ze-hormone, ezingekho ezihlobene nokuba khona kwe-hymen. Ngokuvamile, ukubukeka kwe-acne nekhanda kuyathinteka ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo.
4. Kufanele uhambe kuphela kumgogeni wezifo uma uqala ukuya ocansini.
Lona umbono ongalungile. Isikhathi sokuqala sokubonisana nodokotela wezinkinga zokubeletha ukuza eminyakeni engu-7-8. Udokotela uzoqhuba ukuhlolwa futhi enze iziphetho mayelana nempilo yentombazane.
5. Ukuphuka kwe-hymen njalo kuhambisane nobuhlungu nokuphuma kwegazi.
Uma ukusondelana kwenzeka nomuntu othanda ngempela, futhi intombazane ijabule kakhulu, ukubukeka kobuhlungu kuncishisiwe. Futhi ngezindleko zegazi, konke kuyinto yomuntu ngamunye futhi kuxhomeke ekujuleni kwe-hymen kanye nenani lemithambo yegazi kulo. Kunezimo lapho ngesikhathi sokuxhumana kocansi kokuqala ukuphela kwe-hymen kungenzeki, ngoba ngenxa ye-plasticity yayo ilula.
6. Ubulili bokuqala kufanele kwenzeke nomuntu okhulile futhi onolwazi.
Ngakho ngokuyinhloko awukwazi ukusho, kodwa umlingani ohlangenwe nakho ungcono kunokuqala. Ubudala bendoda abukhathazi ngocansi.
7. Ububele buhle kakhulu ukulahlekelwa endlini yokugezela.
Njengoba wazi, amanzi afudumele asebenza kumuntu ophumuzayo, anciphisa ukungezwani kokukhathazeka futhi anciphisa ubuhlungu, kodwa lokhu akusebenzi ku-sex wokuqala. Amanzi agubha ukugcoba kwemvelo kwesifazane, futhi lokhu kuyisithiyo ekungeneni okuncane.
8. Ngesikhathi socansi lokuqala, kungcono ukungasebenzisi ikhondomu.
Ukukhiqizwa kwamakhondomu wamanje kusetshenziswa ubuchwepheshe obusha kanye namafutha akhethekile. Ngenxa yalokhu, umkhiqizo wokugcina uba mncane, futhi ukushisa okusetshenzisiwe kuthuthukisa ukuthungwa, ngakho-ke ubulili bokuqala kungcono ukungalahli ikhondomu.
9. Ngesikhathi sobulili bokuqala akunakwenzeka ukukhulelwa.
Amantombazane abakholelwa kulo mqondo, ngemuva kokulala kobulili bokuqala bathola ukuthi bakhulelwe. Iqanda lilungele ukukhulelwa, lapho intombazane iphenduka iminyaka engu-11-12 ubudala
Akudingekile ukukholelwa noma yiziphi izinkondlo ezakhiwe abantu abangenakuqonda ukuthi kungani. Ukuze uthole iseluleko kule ndaba kungcono ukuxhumana nomama wakho noma ukuya kudokotela, futhi akudingeki ulalele izintombi ezinolwazi. Uma uthanda isoka lakho futhi konke kwenzeka ngesifiso sobunye, futhi usulungele lesi sinyathelo, ngakho-ke akudingeki ungesabi, kodwa nje uthemba umzimba wakho nomlingani wakho.