Njengoba wazi, kunzima kakhulu ukuthi abesifazane bafinyelele esimweni sokujabula, i-orgasm, kunomuntu. Isizathu salokhu sise-physiology yabesifazane. Ukufeza umphumela oyifunayo embhedeni, ucansi oluhle kakhulu kumele lufunde imizwa yabo, imizwelo kanye nemizwa ephakama phakathi kocansi. Kodwa ukuze ukwazi ukufeza i-orgasm kumuntu, kuyadingeka ukuthi uqonde ngokucacile isimo sokuvela kwe-orgasm emzimbeni wesifazane, lapho ubukhulu bokubonakaliswa kwawo buxhomeke khona nokuthi buyithinta yini.
Indlela yokufinyelela i-orgasm yentombazane?
Isici esibaluleke kunazo zonke esiza ekufezeni ukuphumula ngokocansi kuyincazelo yegolide phakathi kokuzilibazisa nokucindezeleka ngesikhathi se-coitus.
Ake siqale ngenkinga. I-orgasm yabesifazane, ebangelwa ukungezwani kwemisipha, izokusiza uqonde ukuthi ungafezekisa kanjani lokho okuyizinto eziphilayo kuwe. Ukuze kuzuze injabulo, akwanele nje ukuphumula. Ukuxhuma phakathi kweqiniso lokuthi unamathemba amaqembu amancane futhi ufinyelele i-orgasm, ukufihla ekuvusweni. Ukwehlukana kwe-muscle kwandisa ukujikeleza kwegazi emzimbeni womuntu. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi ungafinyelela kanjani ngokushesha i-orgasm, udinga ukwandisa ukuzijabulisa kwakho. Ngenxa yalokhu, sincoma ukusebenzisa izivivinyo ezibizwa nge "Kegel umzimba".
Uma sikhuluma ngokuphumula, kufanele ukuthi ixhumeke engqondweni yakho, kanti umzimba uyancipha. Abesifazane abaningi basizwa ukuba baphumule ngendlela abahambisa ngayo amakhasi abo omagazini. Cabanga ukuthi ugijima amehlo akho emigqeni, kanti kancane kancane uzizwa ukhululekile.
Indlela yokufeza i-orgasm ngocansi, ibhala izincwadi eziningi, izihloko. Jikelele ophakamisa lokhu:
- Lahla ukuzithiba. Lahla zonke izinkinga ezingokwengqondo ezingaba yisisusa somuntu siqu sokuntuleka kwe-orgasm.
- Qiniseka. Ungangabazi ukubukeka kwakho, kube yendalo. Khulisa ukuzethemba kwakho konke ngesikhathi sakho samahhala.
- Thembela umlingani wakho. Lahla ukwesaba kwakho kuqala, sebenze kuzo. Yiya ekuqeqesheni ngokukhethekile okudalwe lokhu.
- Ungacabangi ukuthi ungazuza kanjani i-orgasm eqinile. Ukukhathazeka ngalokhu, uyadelela emzimbeni wakho. Ungazicabangeli, ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi konke kufanele kube okuphelele. Ngeke kube njalo njalo. Phatha umzimba wakho njengokungathi ungangeni emgomweni oyinhloko, kodwa izindlela zokufinyelela injabulo.
Indlela yokufeza i-orgasm ngokushaya indlwabu?
Ukuze uzijabulise, kufanele uqonde umzimba wakho. Ngenxa yalokhu, ungathuthukisa ubulili nomlingani wakho. Hlala yedwa nawe. Ukuze uzizwe ukuthi ungafinyelela kanjani i-orgasm ngokwayo, kubalulekile ukuthi ungaphazanyiswa yinoma yini. Uma kunesidingo, faka umculo otholile. Uma umphefumulo wakho ufisa, ukhanyisa amakhandlela, uthathe ukugeza okuphumuzayo ngamafutha anamakha. Dala zonke izimo ezifaka isandla ekuphumuzeni kwakho, bese uthatha indawo ekhululekile, qala ukuzikhathaza. Zama ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi izenzo ezijabulisayo emzimbeni wakho, futhi okungekho.
Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi kunezindlela zokusiza ukufeza i-orgasm:
- Ukushaya indlwabu.
- Ukugxila. Uchwepheshe wezocansi ochwepheshe ukhetha umzimba okhethekile. Isibonelo, singagxila, sigxile emizweni nasemizweni. Izenzo eziningi zisiza ukujabulela iqiniso lokuthi ngenxa yezenzo zakho, yakho
umlingani uyajabula. - Ukufakela. Njengoba ufunde izifiso zangasese zomzimba wakho ngosizo lokushaya indlwabu, futhi lapho ufunde ukugxila, udinga ukufunda ndawonye nomlingani wakho ukuze uthole injabulo ekuthintaneni ngokocansi. Azikho izincomo eziqondile. Phela, umbhangqwana kuphela owazi kahle ukuthi bathanda yini nokuthi bangenzani.
- Ubulili bendabuko. Lena yindlela yokugcina yokufinyelela i-orgasm. Kufanele kuqaphele ukuthi i-foreplay ende iyakwazi ukwandisa ukuqina kwe-female orgasm.
I-Orgasm ubuciko futhi owesifazane udinga ukubhekana nalokhu ngokuqwashisa, esefunde ubuzwe bomzimba wakhe.