Ngokulahlekelwa ubuntombi, ukwesaba okuningi kanye nezinganekwane ezihlobene, abaningi baze bangasebenzisi amathoni, besaba ukulahlekelwa " ukuhlanzeka ." Ngakho-ke, akumangalisi ukuthi amantombazane avame ukuzibuza ukuthi "unquma kanjani ukuthi ulahlekelwe ubuntombi bakho, wazi kanjani ukuthi ngingumfana?", Ukuzwa ukuzwa okungathandeki lapho usebenzisa i-tampon noma ungayitholi ngokobulili bokuqala. Kulesi sihloko, sizozama ukususa ukungabaza futhi siphendule umbuzo ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukucacisa ubuntombi nokuthi ungathola kanjani ukuthi uyintombi noma engekho ekhaya.
Ngingazi kanjani ukuthi ngilahlekelwe yintombi?
Ngaphambi kokubhekana nale nkinga, kubalulekile ukuthola ukuthi kungani umbuzo uvele ngempela, "Ngimazi kanjani intombazane mina?" Futhi kungani kwakudingeka ulwazi olunjalo? Lapha ungakwazi ukuthatha izinketho eziningi, ngenxa yokuthi kwakukhona isithakazelo esinjalo:
- ubulili bokuqala, okwakungekho "izindaba ezimbi" ezesaba abangane abadala (ubuhlungu obukhulu, ukuphuma);
- ukwesaba ukuthi i-hymen yonakaliswe ngesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu noma ngenxa yokusetshenziswa kwe-tampon emikhulu kunokudinga.
Uma kungabaza ukuthi ubuntombi bakho buvela kanjani uma kungabikho ubuhlungu negazi ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi okokuqala, kufanelekile ukwazi ukuthi ubulili bokuqala abuhambisani njalo nemizwa engathandekayo yintombazane. Kwamanye, i-hymen inesizotha kangangokuthi ukulahlekelwa okuphelele kwenzeka kuphela ngesikhathi sokubeletha, futhi kuze kube yilapho-ke kulula. Kumele futhi kucatshangelwe ukuthi kukhona nokungahambi kahle kwe-hymen, noma kungase kungakhulumi kahle kangangokuthi kungatholakaliswa kuphela yi-gynecologist. Kodwa kukhona okunye okwedlulele - i-hymen enamandla kakhulu. Kulesi simo, igebe alitholakali okokuqala, ngakho intombazane kanye nabathintana nabo bezocansi ezalandela bangase babe nokuzwa okubuhlungu. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kungcono ukuthi uxhumane nomjozi wezifo zokuzivivinya ukuhlinzwa, ngoba imizamo yokuzibamba yokuziqeda ingabangela ukubola kwe-perineum.
Amantombazane amaningi asaba ukusebenzisa ama-tampons, ecabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuba aqede ama-hymen. Ezimweni eziningi lokhu akunakwenzeka, i-hymen inevula yokugeleza kokuya esikhathini. Futhi uma usebenzisa amathikithi wesayizi afanele, akukho lutho olwenzekayo nge-hymen. Ngaphezu kwalokho, noma ngabe usayizi awukhethwanga kahle, noma yiyiphi intombazane ezwa ubuhlungu ngeke ishisekele ngesingeniso.
Manje ngokuphathelene nokushaya indlwabu. Yebo, lapha ama-hymen angonakaliswa, kepha uma kuphela usebenzisa i-dildo (ezinye izinto) zokungena. Ukucindezela i-clitoris nganoma iyiphi indlela, i-hymen ayikwazi ukulimazwa.
Uma emva kwalezi zincazelo kukhona namanje ukungabaza ngokulahlekelwa ubuntombi, khona-ke kuyadingeka ukusebenzisa