Uma ubuhlobo buvusa ukufisa, imibhangqwana eminingi ayilungele ukwamukela lokhu futhi uzame izindlela ezintsha zokuthuthukisa ubudlelwane bazo bobulili. Eminye imibhangqwana ithola injabulo yayo enjalo njenge-BDSM, lapho umqondo we-mystery uvela khona, noma ulula kuneMistress.
Unkosikazi (Mfundisi) - isithombe
UMistress kufanele abheke kanjani ku-BDSM? Kulokhu uzozuza ezinkampanini eziningi zezitolo zobulili ongayibona kuyi-intanethi. Ngomqondo we-classical, isithombe kufanele sihlanganise eziningi zezinto zombala omnyama: isikhumba noma izinto ze-latex, mhlawumbe amabhuzu, izesekeli ezahlukene ngezindlela zemivimbo, izinsimbi, amaketanga, ikhola yomlingani nezinye izinto eziningi. Lesi sithombe sifaneleke ngokuphelele ukwakheka okukhanyayo kwisitayela se-Gothic nobumnyama - noma izinwele ezimnyama (lokhu kufinyelelwa kalula ngokugqoka i-wig).
Isithombe kufanele sicatshangelwe ngemininingwane encane kunazo zonke: ukwakheka, ukukhipha izindebe, ukuhogela, "izisetshenziswa" - konke lokhu kufanele kulungiselelwe ngokucophelela nangaphambi kwesikhathi. Kukholelwa ukuthi imibhangqwana esebenzisa izinhlobo ezahlukene zemidlalo yokudlala indima, kuhlanganise ne-BDSM, iyona enamandla kakhulu.
Umsikazi wezocansi: Ochwepheshe
Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi nakuba abantu bethi bafuna ukubusa abesifazane, isithombe esinjalo esingathandeki, esiqinile, esinobungozi sibajabulisa ngezinye izikhathi okuhle kunazo zonke ezithambile nabesifazane.
Yiqiniso, lokhu akukwazi ukusiza kodwa kudlalwe "abapristikazi bothando" abaqeqeshiwe, abaningi babo abathola ngisho namasayithi abo, lapho amakhasimende angase abe khona ukuze bazibonele uhlu lwamasevisi anikeziwe futhi bahlole ukubonakala kwesithombe. Izinsizakalo zaloluhlobo zinikelwa kanye nezidakamizwa ezingathí sina zokwehla kwesisindo ngaphandle kokusondelana. Kulesi simo, intombazane eyimfihlakalo ngokuvamile eyingxoxo yokuqala kanye neklayenti ifuna ukuthola ukulungela kwayo kanye nendawo, ngoba akubona wonke umuntu ofika kakade olungiselelwe ngokwengqondo.