Ukuguquguquka enkulisa - ukubonisana kwabazali

Zonke izinyane ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-3-4 zithinteka kakhulu kubazali nasekhaya. Kodwa ngokushesha noma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi udinga ukuzijabulisa, ngakho-ke izingane eziningi zalesi sizwe ziqala ukuya enkulisa. Lena umzuzu othakazelisayo kakhulu wezinhlanzi, kanye nomama nobaba wakhe. Ukwenza lula ukujwayela enkulisa, kufanele wazi kahle ukubonisana kwabazali ngale ndaba.

Indlela yokwenza ingane ingene ensimini ngenjabulo?

Uma ingane yakho iya eqenjini lakhe njalo ekuseni ngokukhamuluka nangezinyembezi, ungasheshi ukuthatha ngokushesha izincwadi ezivela esikhungweni sezingane. Kodwa futhi ukulinda, ukuthi bonke bayodlula ngokwabo, futhi akudingekile. Nazi izeluleko eziphumelela kakhulu kwengqondo kwengqondo ngokufaniswa kwengane enkulisa:

1. Ukushiya ingane ekunakekeleni uthisha, ungabonisi injabulo yakho: indodana noma indodakazi ifunda kahle imizwelo yakho. Khuluma ngezwi elizolile, elizethembayo, echaza ukuthi uzomlandela ngempela ngamahora ambalwa. Tshela ingane ukuthi uzokwenza izinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo enkulisa: ukudweba, ukucula, ukudlala, ukuhamba, kanye nazo zonke izinkinga azonikezwa ukuqonda uthisha nomhlengikazi.
2. Ungahambi ngokuthula futhi ungasho lutho, ngisho noma ingane iqalile ukudlala. Ngokubona ukuthi usheshe walala, uzobhekana nokucindezeleka okukhulu. Cabanga ngomkhuba wakho wokwahlukana - ukumanga esihlathini, ukumbumbuluza, ukuthinta izandla - futhi uphinde ukhumbuze ukuthi ekupheleni kosuku i-crumb izobuyela ekhaya.
3. Ekubonisaneni ubuso nobuso ngososayensi ekuvumelaneni ingane enkulisa, abazali baxoxwa ngokwemvelo ukuthi umbuso wosuku lomntwana, ngisho nangaphambi kokuvakashela okokuqala esikhungweni samabanga asenkulisa, kufanele uhambisane ngokusemandleni nalokho okulindelekile eqenjini. Ukubeka isikhathi sokulala noma ukungabi nalutho lokulala kwansuku akuvunyelwanga: indodana noma indodakazi engenazintambo ingase iwele ezinyangeni lapho abazali bezama ukuwashiya ensimini noma ukuphazamisa ezinye izingane.
4. Ukubonisana kwamama namadodakazi ukulungiswa enkulisa kuyadingeka uma umntwana ezwela kakhulu, ecasulwa noma engasebenzi kahle. Ngokuvamile umtshele ukuthi uyamthanda futhi ungalokothi udikibale. Ngokubambisana, cabanga ngendaba yezinganekwane, isibonelo, mayelana ne-bunny eyavakashela leli qembu kanye nezinye izilwane futhi inesikhathi esikhulu lapho.
5. Ungashiyi ingane yakho usuku lonke. Qala ngamahora ambalwa bese ukwandisa kancane kancane ubude bokuhlala.
6. Uma ubhekana nesimo esibucayi sezingane enkulisa, uzodinga iseluleko se-psychotherapist eqeqeshiwe. Uzokutshela lokho ngempela abazali abakwenzayo ngalesi simo.