Yini ongayinika umphathi?

Isipho sompheki wesigubhu, usuku lokuzalwa, uNyaka Omusha noma iluphi elinye iholidi akuyona umsebenzi olula kulabo abangaphansi kwakhe. Yiqiniso, abasebenzi bafuna ukumangaza umphathi wabo, ngakho-ke ukukhethwa kwesipho kufanele kuhanjiswe nakho konke ukungathí sina. Kulesi sihloko sizozama ukuphendula umbuzo: "Yini ongayinika umphathi?"

Okokuqala, isipho kumphathi kumele siqine futhi sigcizelele isikhundla sakhe esiphakeme. Ngisho noma u-boss usemibandela enobungane nabathandekayo bakhe, akakwazi ukuthokozisa ithoyizi elithambile noma i-trinket eshibhile. Uma ukhetha isipho, umphathi kumele aqondiswe yizinto ezilandelayo:

• ubumnene bomphathi;
• izinto ezithandwayo, izithakazelo, ukuzijabulisa;
• umphathi uyindoda noma owesifazane.

Yini ongayinika umphathi womuntu?

Isipho esiya enhloko yomuntu kufanele sibe sesimanje futhi singabizi. Izinketho zesipho:

1. Izesekeli zebhizinisi. Kungaba yizinto zokubiza ezibizayo, tie, umnikazi wekhadi, isikhwama, isikhumba sehhovisi lesikhumba nokunye okuningi. Lokhu kuyinto ongayinika umphathi wakho ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa, umkhosi wokugubha usuku noma iFebhuwari 23.
2. Isipho esifana nezenzo zokuzilibazisa. Kungaba yinduku yokudoba, ikhibhodi entsha, iqoqo le-tennis rackets, izesekeli ze-ski noma ibhayisikili, itende nokuningi. Ngokwemvelo, noma yiliphi lalezi zipho kufanele libizwe, libiza, ngesiqinisekiso. Uma kungenjalo, uzobangela ukudumazeka kuphela.
3. Isikhumbuzo. Isikhumbuzo sikhulu njengesipho kumholi wosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa nonyaka omusha. Izitolo eziningi zesipho zanamuhla zinikeza izinkumbulo ezinhle kakhulu. Kunoma yikuphi, umkhumbulo kufanele ube nencazelo. Isikhumbuzo siyisipho esingathathi hlangothi futhi sivame ukuhanjiswa kumphathi owake wahlala ehhovisi kamuva, noma ithimba lakhe lenze ubuhlobo obuhle. Futhi, isikhumbuzo singanikezwa esimweni lapho umsebenzi engazi kangcono lokho okuthandwa ngu-boss.
4. Umkhosi. Akubona bonke abasebenzi abazokwazi ukunikeza isipho enhloko yeholidi. Lokhu kungenzeka kuphela lapho leli qembu liye lahlakulela ubudlelwano obufudumele nobungane. Inhlangano yeholidi ingenziwa yiqembu lonke noma ungaphendukela kubachwepheshe. Kuze kube manje, kunezinkampani eziningi ezihlela imikhosi, amaholide ezinkampani nezinsuku zokuzalwa. Lesi sipho sokuqala esiyinhloko sizojabulisa induna futhi sizovumela ukuqoqa ndawonye.

Yini ongayinika owesifazane umphathi?

Uma ukhetha isipho kumfazi, umphathi kumele aqale ukucabangela ukuthi ungowesifazane, futhi kuphela lapho engumphathi. Njenganoma yiliphi elinye ubulili obuhle, umphathi awuyona into ebuthakathaka obujwayelekile besifazane - uthando lwezinto ezinhle, izimbali, ama-baubles amahle. Izinketho zesipho:

1. Imbali ebhakabhaka ebhodweni elihle. Isipho esinjalo umphathi wekhanda angashiya ehhovisi lakhe noma amyise ekhaya. Kunoma yikuphi, kuzodingeka ukuthi kudingeke futhi kusebenze.
2. Amakhasethi aphethwe yi-chocolate, ikhofi yemvelo noma itiye, ibhodlela lewayini noma i-martini.
3. Amafutha abizayo. Lesi sipho kufanele sinikezwe kuphela uma izintandokazi zomphathi wekhanda ziyaziwa.
4. Isikhumbuzo. Lolu khetho, kanye namadoda, lufanelekile kuzo zonke izikhathi - njengesipho esihlokweni sejubili, usuku lokuzalwa, unyaka omusha.
5. Isipho sokuqala kumphathi wesifazane. Lapha, abangaphansi bangasebenzisa ingqondo yabo ngokugcwele. Umphathi wekhanda angabonisa isithombe esihle senothilethi, isiqephu sezimbali ezidliwayo, idayari engavamile oklanyelwe nokunye okuningi. Izipho ezijabulisayo kumphathi angakhetha, futhi, ezitolo eziningi zesipho.