Ufuna kanjani ukuthi wonke umama abone indodakazi yakhe encane esikhathini esizayo owesifazane wangempela, bonke abantu abakuzungezile bayomdumisa! Abafundile kahle, abafundisiwe, abalungile, abathandekayo, abaphendulayo, abahlanza kahle - lezi zimfanelo zihlotshaniswa abantu abaningi negama elithi "lady". Futhi lokhu kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ekuqaleni kwakusetshenziselwa abesifazane abawazi kuphela ukubhaka isinkwa! Ngeshwa, imikhuba emihle yanamuhla, ikakhulukazi emantombazaneni asencane, ayibhekwa njengento evamile. Kodwa ngisho noma ingane yakho yokufundela esikoleni ikhetha ukuba umngane nabafana, iziphatha njenge-tomboy yangempela, kusekhona isikhathi sokukhulisa owesifazane wangempela kuye.
Umama kusukela ebusweni
Indlela ephumelela kakhulu futhi elula yokukhulisa i-princess encane kwintombazane encane yisibonelo somuntu siqu. Phakathi neminyaka yokuqala yokuphila, umama uyigunya ingane elinganayo. I-Psychology yengane injalo ukuthi yonke into eyayizungezile, ishiya umshicileli kumlingisi, iphethini yokuziphatha kanye nokubonakala. Uma umama ecabanga ukuthi kubalulekile ukubheka okuhle nokuzilungisa kahle ngaphandle kwendlu, kuyoba nzima ukuchazela umntwana, kungani ugcina imithetho yokuhlanzeka, ukuqapha isimo sezingubo, izinwele, izipikili. Ngokuvamile abazali bacabanga ukuthi izinto ezinhle kufanele ziphelelwe yisikhathi, futhi indlu ye-pantyhose endala enezimbobo, ama-raglan anamabala avela kumusi noma ushokoledi azokwehla. Cha, lokhu akusho ukuthi ekhaya udinga ukugqoka intombazane ngendwangu yokugqoka, kodwa izingubo ezizenzekelayo kufanele zibe zihlanzekile, zihlanzekile.
Kusukela esemncane, ejwayele ukugqoka izingubo zesifazane, akuyona into eyimfihlo ukuthi namuhla abesifazane abaningi abakwazi ukuphuma emabhantshi abo, becabangela iziketi futhi bagqoke bengakhululekile. I-fashionista encane ingajabula ukugqoka izingubo ezinhle, futhi umkhuba uzohlala isikhathi eside. Zakolochki, izinwele zezinwele ezimnandi, amahhashi, i-pigtails - intombazane enesithakazelo nje!
Yiqiniso, ukubukeka kubalulekile, kodwa azikho izinto ezibalulekile. Isibonelo, inkulumo yentombazane. Futhi akulona ngamazwi ahlambalaza, okuyinto engamukeleki neze! Izibuyekezo ezimbi zabanye abantu, ukunyundela, ukuhleba - yilokho owesifazane wangempela angeke azivumele. Yingakho intombazane ingayikuzwa imishwana enjalo kumama, ugogo, odadewabo. Lapho eseyingane, noma yimuphi umkhuba wenziwa ngokushesha, ngakho abazali kufanele balandele inkulumo yabo.
Lady - kungukuzimela, ubulili, ukuzethemba, umusa, charm, umusa. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuphula umlingisi wentombazane! Uma ekhuthele futhi ehamba phambili, umsebenzi womama ukusiza intombazane ukuthola imingcele eyoyivumela ukuba ihlale intombazane, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo uzizwe. Chaza omncane ukuthi ukubukeka okumnandi nokukhangayo nokuziphatha okunengekayo akusho lutho! Ubuhle buzobe bungabonakali!
Ake sibambe imiphumela
Uyazi ingane yakho kangcono kunanoma ubani omunye! Ayikho imithetho ejwayelekile engasiza ekufundiseni indodakazi yangempela evela emntwaneni, kodwa ngokulandela izincomo ezilandelayo, uzokwenza lula umsebenzi wakho:
- isibonelo somuntu siqu;
- ukukhuthaza noma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kwesifazane;
- umsebenzi oqhubekayo ekuziphatheni kwengane;
- ukuhambisana nemithetho yokuhlanzeka (ezembathweni, phakathi kwabanye);
- ukwandisa ukukhanya kwengane;
- ukuxhunyelela imikhuba emihle.
Futhi ungalaleli labo abathi izikhathi zezinqola ezinesibindi namadodakazikazi athandekayo adala! Umusa, ukukhuliswa okuhle, ukuphendula, ukuhlonipha abanye, ubuhle bangaphakathi buzohlale buzwa kakhulu. Futhi uthando lwabazali, ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa ngabasizi abakhulu emfundweni yenkosikazi encane enhle.
Okuyinselelo efanayo kubazali nokukhuliswa komnumzane omncane.