Izincwadi zengqondo ezifanele ukufunda

Uma ufuna ukuziqonda wena, emphefumulweni wakho, ungafuni izimpendulo emehlweni endalo yakho. Ezikhathini ezinjalo ezibalulekile, abeluleki abakhulu bayoba izincwadi ezingokwengqondo, ezifanele ukufunda, okokuqala, ngokwakho, hhayi ngesicelo somngane noma omunye umuntu. Iyini ukusetshenziswa kwalezi zincwadi uma kubonakala sengathi izwe liyaphela futhi akukho lutho olungaphulukisa umphefumulo? Yilapho kudingeka khona. Izincwadi ezinjalo ziyakwazi ukwandisa umbono wezwe, zivule amehlo ethu ezintweni eziningi ezingaziwa ngaphambilini, ngaleyo ndlela zibonisa ukuthi, noma ngabe yikuphi isimo, kukhona njalo indlela yokuphuma.

Izincwadi ezinhle kakhulu ezingokwengqondo

1. "Shaba njengomculi. 10 Izifundo zokuzibonakalisa kwe-Creative, O. Cleon . Encwadini yomculi osemusha, ubuntu bokudala, umlobi, umfundi ufunda indlela yokuveza amandla akhe angaphakathi, ukuguqula izinto ezejwayelekile zibe yinto engavamile, ukudweba imibono kunoma yikuphi, ngisho nendawo encane. Okuthakazelisayo kakhulu ukuthi umbhali wenza lezi zifundo ezingu-10, ngokusekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe. Emva kwakho konke, ngesikhathi esithile, lapho eqala ukuzifunela yena, naye wayedinga lezi zifundo ezilulekayo.
2. "Amadoda avela eMar, abesifazane baseVenus", uJ . Grey . Isazi sezengqondo zomndeni waseMelika, ngosizo lwezicucu zezincwadi zakhe, asisindanga isikhungo esisodwa somndeni esahlukaneni. Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi amadoda nabesifazane bacabanga ngendlela ehlukile, kodwa inkolelo ihlala ingumqondo. Ngokuphathelene nesicelo esiwusizo, abaningi bayakhohlwa ngalokhu futhi ngenxa yalokho bahlala emgodini ophukile. Ubudlelwane bunjani uhlobo lomsebenzi lapho kudingeka ngaso sonke isikhathi ukusebenza kanzima, uthuthukise bobabili abalingani.
3. "Yenza ngokwakho. Amathiphu kulabo abafuna ukushiya uphawu lwabo, "T. Sylig . Ukufunda izincwadi ezingokwengqondo akunakwenzeka ngenhloso yokuzijabulisa okuhle, kodwa futhi nesifiso sokufeza ukukhula komuntu siqu. Lapho umcwaningi waseMelika uRalph Waldo Emerson ethi: "Zibeke imali yakho konke okukuwe." Futhi uma lokhu "konke" kumuntu kunemisebenzi yakhe yokuzilibazisa, izithakazelo, khona-ke uTina Siling uzokutshela encwadini yakhe ukuthi angabashintsha kanjani emisebenzini yokuhweba, lapho ukudweba imibono nendlela yokuzithuthukisa ngokwabo, ukuze kusetshenziswe konke okukhulelwe.
4. "Imidlalo lapho abantu badlala khona," u-E . Bern . Incwadi engezansi engokwengqondo yenzalo yakha udokotela wezengqondo owaziwayo. Ubani owakusho ukuthi sonke sidlala imidlalo njengengane? Njengabantu abadala, basho ukuthi, bashintsha baba into engathí sina, bafaka imaski yabo kanye nomuntu, ngezinye izikhathi bengayitholi, badlala imidlalo nabanye abantu, nendawo yabo.
5. "Imibhalo ephathelene nokucwaninga kwengqondo ngokobulili", uZ . Freud . Umsunguli we- psychoanalysis ejulile wanikela impilo yakhe yonke ekutadisheni ubuhlobo bobulili obuphakathi kwabantu. Kule ncwadi, ukuze uthole ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo yakho, ungathola ulwazi oluningi oluthakazelisayo olufanele eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-12.

Izincwadi ezinhle ezingokwengqondo zabesifazane

1. "Kungani ungashadile okwamanje?", UT . Macmillan . Amathiphu abafundi abayothola encwadini ahlolwe ngumlobi ngokusebenza. Ngendlela, emsebenzini wakhe uvula amehlo akhe ezintweni ezishiye ngaphandle kwendawo yokubheka, futhi ngenxa yalokho amadoda angafuni ukwakha umndeni onabesifazane abanjalo. I-Macmillan izofakazela ukuthi wonke umuntu angajabula
2. "Ukudla akuyona inkinga. Ungahlala kanjani ngokuthula nawe nomzimba wakho? ", UJ.R. Ros . Ezweni lokuncintisana okuphakade ngenjabulo yabo, ukuphakanyiswa emkhakheni wezemisebenzi, abaningi abanaso isikhathi sokunakekela labo abakubo. Ukuze ulahlekelwe isisindo, akwanele ukuzinqanda ukudla. Kubalulekile ukubuyekeza izilungiselelo zakho. Lokhu hhayi kuphela okungafundwa ngokufunda le ncwadi.