Ngombono we-"crisis age age" sonke siyaziwa yizincwadi namafilimu, nakuba kuvame ukusetshenziswa kubantu. Kodwa izinkinga ezihlobene nobudala nazo zenzeka nakwabesifazane, kuze kube yilapho nje le nkinga yayingakaze ibe nzima kakhulu. Futhi ezweni lanamuhla, abesifazane kufanele balwe nendawo elangeni ngokuhambisana nobulili obuqinile, ngakho-ke ukucindezeleka okuvamile, ukucindezeleka nezinye izinkinga.
Izimbangela zezinkinga iminyaka engu-25 kwabesifazane
Ekuboneni kokuqala, kungase kubonakale ukuthi inkinga yeminyaka engama-25 yabesifazane iyinto evelele kakhulu, ngalesi sikhathi yiziphi izinkinga ezingaba khona? Eqinisweni, le nkathi yinto eguqukayo ekupheleni kwentombazane ngayinye. Lapho uneminyaka engama-25, ukuqeqeshwa kufanele kugcwaliswe, umsebenzi ohlala njalo noma ongapheli wamukelwa, futhi impilo yomuntu siqu ihlelekile. Kunoma yikuphi, yilokho umbono womphakathi usiqinisekisa khona. Kodwa empeleni lokhu kungcono akukwazi ukufezwa wonke umuntu, umuntu ukubheja emkhakheni, ukukhohlwa ngemvelo yokudala umndeni. Abanye eminyakeni yokugcina yesikhungo bashada, bahlala kulo nyaka benesipiliyoni esihle kakhulu sokubeletha, kodwa ngokuntuleka okuphelele kwamakhono ochwepheshe kanye nolwazi olukhohliweyo. Okungukuthi, imbangela yenkinga ehlobene nobudala kubantu besifazane ukungaqiniseki kwanoma yisiphi isici sokuphila nokungazi ukuthi uzohamba kuphi.
Ukuxazulula inkinga yobudala besifazane
Ezimweni ezinzima kakhulu, umuntu kufanele asebenzise usizo lochwepheshe, kodwa ezimweni eziningi kukhona ithuba lokuqonda isimo sakho ngokwakho. Zama ukwakha indawo enhle ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka futhi ucabange ngalokho onganiki ukuphumula.
Ucabanga ukuthi emisebenzini yakho ungabeka isiphambano ngenxa yokuba khona kwengane encane? Cabanga ukuthi ukuphumelela emkhakheni wezobuchwepheshe kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, noma kufanele uqaphele njengomama, uchithe isikhathi samahhala emsebenzini, okungukuthi, ngisho nekhwalithi ephakeme, ngisho nengeniso encane ingaletha. Uma uhlala ekhaya futhi ufunde ubuciko bokugcina indlu awufuni ngempela, cabanga ngalokho ofuna ukukwenza. Futhi uphendule lo mbuzo, hhayi ngokusekelwe emfundweni noma ekuhlangenwe nakho komsebenzi wangaphambilini, ungesabi ukushintsha kakhulu umsebenzi wokusebenza. Ukuzama okusha akukaze kube sekwephuzile kakhulu, futhi uma useneminyaka yakho ngisho nangaphezulu.
Enye inkinga eyenza abesifazane besifo seminyaka bangabaza ngokuphila kwabo. Impumelelo yomsebenzi
Ngokuvamile inkinga yeminyaka engama-25 yabesifazane ixazululwe ngaphansi kwethonya lemvelo, okuyinto engenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi isinqumo esifanele. Ngenxa yalokho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi isimo sezinkinga sibuya, siqhubeke kuze kube yilapho intombazane engaziqondi ukuthi yini efuna ekuphileni.