Uma uvame ukuzwa izinsolo zobugovu, futhi uzibuza ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nesifo sokuhlushwa, kufanele ufunde isihloko sethu.
Yiziphi izinhlobo zobugovu?
Okokuqala, masiqonde ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha okungokoqobo kwabantu, futhi kungani lelikhwalithi ebalulekile ngathi ngezinye izikhathi liphenduka isigaba sokungaphumeleli. I-Egoism isifiso sokuzuza kuzo zonke izinto, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izithakazelo zabantu abaseduze.
Empeleni, ubugovu abukwenzi impilo yethu ibe ngcono, ngokuphambene nalokho, kuvame ukubavimbela ekuphileni.
Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, ukuxolisa ngokweqile ebuhlotsheni kubonisa ukuthi umuntu akahle angakulungeli ukwakha izithakazelo zomndeni esikhundleni sakhe. Futhi uzoholela ekuqinisweni ukuthi impilo yomndeni iyoba nomuthi wokuxabana nokuhlambalaza. U-egoism wesifazane uvame ukubonakaliswa ukungathandi kwentombazane ukwamukela ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi indoda kufanele ibe yedwa . Ukude, sibona, njengemizwa yokupholisa, kuyilapho kumadoda kungokwemvelo - ukulinda isiphepho semizwelo, ngaphandle kokucindezela umphefumulo wakho. U-egoism wesilisa uvame ukubonakaliswa ukuthi indoda ayifuni ukulahlekelwa inkululeko yakhe. Futhi ukunakekelwa kwabesifazane kubonakala, njengoba kunjalo. Ubani ongayithanda?
I-egoism yabazali - lapho abazali bengaboni izingane zabo ilungelo lokuphikisana. Okusho ukuthi, abamboni umuntu kubo. I-Egoism igugile - ukubuyela ebuntwaneni, lapho umuntu engakwazi ukufaka ithonya ezweni langaphandle, kodwa isidingo sakhe sokuzizwa asibalulekile asizange siphume. Ngokuvamile, noma yikuphi ukuziphatha okungokoqobo, eqinisweni - isifaniso sokuthi umuntu akazithandi ngokwanele futhi akethembi izwe elikuzungezile.
Ukuze ususe lokho okubizwa ngokuthi ubugovu, sebenzisa ikhwalithi efana nozwela. Ekugcineni, injabulo yabakuzungezile incike enjabulweni yakho. Mhlawumbe kuzwakala kuyinqaba, kodwa kungokwemvelo! Ukuthuka okuningi akusetshenzisiwe kithi ngenxa yenhlanhla yethu, kodwa ngoba abantu abajabuli. Uma uhamba ngezinyawo esitimeleni somuntu ojabulayo, akunakwenzeka ukuthi kuyoyiphatha isimo sakhe sengqondo. Abantu abajabula kakhulu abazungezile, kuyathakazelisa kakhulu ukuhlala. Yilokho, wena ngokwakho unesithakazelo ngokuyinhloko kulokhu. Futhi yilapho ungakwazi ukuqondisa khona amandla amakhulu okuzikhukhumeza, ukuphakamisa kulesi simo sobuhle!