Yini okufanele uyenze uma kungekho lutho okufanele uyenze? Abaningi ngalolu daba nje bavele, okusho ukuthi akukho lutho okufanele lwenze, khona-ke kungaba yisikhathi sokuthola mahhala! Kodwa cha, kunabantu abahluphekayo, abangazi ukuthi benzeni nabo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, odokotela basitshela ukuthi isimo esinjalo, lapho kungekho lutho okufanele senze futhi singazi ukuthi benzeni, kuyingozi empilweni yethu. Futhi hhayi ngoba abantu bangenza izinto eziyinqaba ezivela emathunjini, kodwa ngoba ubuchopho bethu badinga ukubonakala kwansuku zonke. Futhi uma bengenjalo, khona-ke isimo esithi "Ngiyithukuthele kakhulu, akukho lutho okumele ngiyenze" luzokhula lube yinkinga enkulu. Ukuvimbela lokhu kungenzeki, ake sicabange ndawonye ukuthi yini engenziwa uma kungekho lutho okufanele lwenze.
Yini ongayenza uma unesikhathi samahhala?
1. Okokuqala, udinga ukwenza uhlu lwezifiso zakho. Thatha ipeni, iphepha, uhlale kahle futhi uqale ukufisa - bhala konke okufika engqondweni, ngoba ngokuqinisekile kunezinto oye wathanda ukuzenza isikhathi eside, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile zahlehlisa ukufisa izifiso zabo zokuphila okungapheli. Kulungile, manje umzuzu ufike lapho ungakwenza, uma ungenzi konke okwakushiwo, khona-ke khumbulani okungenani izinhloso zakho. Mhlawumbe ufuna ukugxuma ngeparachute, ufunde ukudlala amabhilidididi, ufunde incwadi? Noma mhlawumbe uke ufune ukulalela izingoma zomculi wakho ozithandayo isikhathi eside, kodwa zonke izandla azifinyelelanga - ngakho-ke akukho sikhathi, kanti i-Inthanethi ayisebenzi kahle ngendlela efanele?
Noma kunjalo, uhlu olwenzile, kahle, yini okufanele uyenze ngokulandelayo? Gwema kunzima ukugcwalisa izifiso, njengendiza eya endaweni kanye nobusuku noJohnny Depp. Wenze okufanayo? Kuhle kakhulu, bona ukuthi zingaki izinketho ozishiye isikhathi samahhala. Ihlala kuphela ukukhetha ukuthi ungaqala kuphi futhi ubeke amandla, kanjani ukususa isandla.
2. Uma kungekho lutho okufanele uyenze, imidlalo iyoba usizo. Lapho uzikhethele khona - ingabe kuyoba umdlalo we-tennis, umdlalo we-chess noma umdlalo we "ingwenya", lapho udlala nabangani bakho. Ayikho inkampani yemidlalo, engesabi lapho kungekho lutho, i-intanethi ingumngane omkhulu. Lapho ungathola ithoyizi kulabo abathandayo - abadubulayo, abagijima, abadlala indima emidlalweni ye-intanethi. Yebo, ufuna ukuthi ihluzo zibe yingozi kakhulu, hamba esitolo ukuze uthole umdlalo wekhompiyutha futhi uqhubeke, bulala isikhathi ngemuva kokuqapha. Ngisho noma ungakaze udlale imidlalo yekhompyutha, zama ukuthi ulahlekelwe, kusadingeki lutho.
3. Ngendlela, uma ungafuni ukudlala, ungathola amabhuku ku-intanethi nakumafilimu. Yini ongayibona, uma kungekho lutho okufanele lwenze? Kulungile kuwe ukuthi unqume ukuthi yini oyithandayo ngaphezulu, bese ubheka. Futhi uma ufuna ngempela ukuthatha ikhanda lakho, phikisana nalokho abantu abashisayo abakushoyo, okubekwe kweso sikhwama, noma ukusikhahlela esikrinini - bheka ezinye izinto ezingezansi zesayensi ezingenasayensi, okuye kwaba kakhulu ezikhathini zamuva kokubili ezikrinini ze-TV naku-intanethi. Manje ngisho nokuqotshwa kwemoto noma i-pie yokushiswa kungadluliselwa kubafokazi, futhi baqala ukufakazela leli phuzu ngephutha emlonyeni. Bheka, ujabule.
4. Unayo izingane, mhlawumbe hhayi ezakho, umshana wakho noma umshana wakho, isibonelo? Buza, mhlawumbe ingane nayo ayikho into engayenza.
5. Azikho izingane eziseduze, kodwa akekho ozozenza nazo? Ukufuna ngokuphuthumayo umbhangqwana, impilo noma amasonto ambalwa, lokhu kuyindlela yokuphuma. Into eyinhloko ukuthi inqubo yokuthola injabulo entsha izokukusindisa ekukhunjweni, futhi isikhalazo ukuthi akukho lutho oluzokwenza ebusuku, ngeke ukwazi.
6. Esinye isigamu, kodwa esithandekayo kokubili? Khona-ke ukucinga ukuzijabulisa okudingayo ukuheha lesibili esithukuthele. Cabanga ngalokho ongathanda ukukwenza ndawonye, cabanga ngokwakho isiko okungenani kanye ngenyanga ukwenza into entsha. Ubheka futhi ujabulise, okuzobamba isimo sakho esibi nesithukuthezi, kuyotholakala.