Ngenxa yalokho, iningi lezingane alizange londliwe isikhathi eside, ngoba amahora amathathu nesithupha aphumula imini nobusuku ayengenalo umphumela omuhle ngobisi obisi. Kodwa lokhu kwakungadingeki, ngoba inhlanganisela enkulu kakhulu yeSoviet "Baby" yayimiswe njengento ewusizo kakhulu enganeni.
Izikhathi zishintshile, futhi omama baye bafunda ukuthi ukubeletha isikhathi eside eside, okuyinto enenzuzo kakhulu empilweni nasekuthuthukiseni kwengane, kuhlukaniswe ukulala ndawonye. Futhi hhayi kuphela ngenxa yokwelashwa okuphumelelayo, kunconywa ukuthi umama nengane balele ndawonye . Lapho umntwana ezwa ukushisa komama cishe amahora angu-24 ngosuku, uyakhula futhi eqiniseka, futhi umama unethuba lokulala okungcono. Kubi nakakhulu uma evuka emntwaneni izikhathi eziningana ebusuku, eyondla, bese ebuyela esikhungweni, elalele ukukhala kwakhe.
Kodwa isikhathi sifike lapho umama nomntwana kudingeka balale ngokwehlukana ukuze kududuze futhi kube lula kokubili. Ukudla kuphephile futhi ingane ayidingi ukuxhumana okunjalo njalo nomama njalo. Kodwa, ngokusebenza, kuvela, akulula ukuhambisa ingane ngaphandle, hhayi ekamelweni elihlukile, kodwa ngisho nasebhekeni lakho. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi ungamfundisa kanjani ingane ukuba ilele esibhedlela, kufanele ukwazi ukuthi uzokwenza nini, ukuze ungalimazi ingqondo yengane engozini.
Isikhathi esihle kakhulu sokulala okuhlukile
Ngakho-ke, sesinqume ukuthi umntwana uvunyelwe ukulala nabazali bakhe lapho esondla ngokwemvelo. Uma umntwana engumuntu ongokoqobo, khona-ke akukho mqondo ekumbeke embhedeni, ngoba ebusuku izingane ezinjalo ziphule ukudla okunomsoco eneminyaka engu-1, futhi zizobhekana nokuthula.
Ngisho noma uvumele ingane yokufakelwa ukuba ilale embhedeni womzali, ngeke kube nzima ukuyithumela ekliniki eneminyaka engu-1-2 ubudala, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lapho lokhu kungenziwanga ngesikhathi, kuyoba nenkinga ukuthi ungambeka kanjani embhedeni wakhe .
Ungadlulisela ingane embhede ohlukene emva kokuphela kokuncelisa, kodwa kudingeka wenze lokhu kancane kancane, ngoba ingane esekhulile iba, kunzima kakhulu ukuba ivumelane nezimo ezintsha. Ubudala bonyaka owodwa nengxenye buhle kakhulu, ngoba izinhlelo ezimbili, iminyaka emithathu zizoba nzima nakakhulu, futhi abazali nabo baqinisekisiwe ukulala ebusuku.
Izindlela zobuqili
Omama abaningi banenkinga, hhayi ukuqonda indlela yokufundisa ingane ukuba ilele esibhedlela. Futhi iqiniso liwukuthi akunakwenzeka neze ukwenza lokhu ngamandla, futhi akuphumelelanga noma:
- ukubeka umntwana esihlalweni, udinga ukuba khona, utshele inganekwane noma uhlabelele ama-lullabies, aze alele;
- umphumela omuhle uletha amasiko okuhlwa - ukugeza, ukubeka izidoli embhedeni, futhi emva kwengane uqobo. Kuhle uma umntwana enesitokisi esithandwayo esithandwayo, lapho engeke abe yedwa esitokisini sakhe;
- indlela ethakazelisayo, lapho umbhede wengane ushiywe nsuku zonke kusukela kumzali, ngokoqobo ububanzi obulodwa, uzama ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ibanga likhula kancane kancane. Ngakho, emva kwenyanga, ungazama ukuhambisa ingane ekamelweni lakhe;
- kuyasiza kakhulu endabeni yokufundisa umbhede ukukhanya okuhle ebusuku. Ngosizo lwakhe, ukulala kuzokwenziwa ngenothi elihle, ikakhulukazi uma lihambisana nezinganekwane;
ukulungiswa emanzini, iphepha lodonga ngezintandokazi zakho ze-cartoon, ukulala kwezingane ezinhle - konke lokhu kwenza ingane iqiniseke ukuthi isivele ikhulu futhi ingalala ngokuphelele embhedeni wayo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izindlela ezihilelekile ekukhuliseni umntwana esikhungweni, ungakhohlwa ukuthi into esemqoka kuleli bhizinisi ukuhambisana. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma utshele ingane ukuthi usevele ukhulu futhi kufanele alale ngokwehlukana, khona-ke awukwazi ukuphula umthetho wakho bese umbuyisela embhedeni. Akuyona into engathandeki ukudlulisela umntwana embhedeni ohlukile, uma egula, amazinyo akhe aqoshiwe, noma ukuhamba okunye noma okunye okubalulekile kubangela umndeni.