Amandla amaningi njengoba izingane zethu zinakho, cishe akukho isidalwa esiphilayo emhlabeni. I-"pochemchki" yabo ehlala njalo, iqhuma, idonsa iphoqelelwe ukuba ibambe emakhanda kwanoma imuphi umama - futhi lokhu kuvamile kakhulu ezinganeni ezincane. Phela, noma yikuphi ukungqubuzana kungasindisa okungenani isigamu sehora kanye nomdlalo ozolile - ukhetha umklami, umdwebo, ubheka izithombe encwadini enenzuzo. Yiqiniso, imithetho ngayinye inehlukile yayo: uma ingane yakho isebenze kakhulu futhi uthola ukuphumula okwesikhashana, kufanele ucabange ngokuxilongwa okunjalo njengokungasebenzi kahle kobuchopho.
Izimpawu nezimbangela ze-MMD
Lokhu ukuxilongwa kubangelwa ukukhathazeka ekuziphatheni kwengane: ukungahambi kahle, ukunakekelwa kokunakekelwa, ukuphazamiseka kokulala nokudla, ukukhathala, inkani nokunye okunye - konke lokhu kufanele kuxwayise abazali futhi bakhonze njengesibongo sokubiza udokotela. Isizathu esiyinhloko sokungasebenzi kahle kobuchopho ezinganeni kubhekwa njengokwakhiwa okungalungile kwesimiso sezinzwa kwengane ekuqaleni, kusukela ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa komama. Izinto eziphathelene nomphakathi (ukukhulelwa okungafunwa, ukungqubuzana emndenini, izinga eliphansi lemfundo kanye namasiko kubazali), ukuzalwa, ngokungathandabuzeki, kuthinta ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kwengane.
Ukwelashwa kwe-MMD
Uma, emva kokubona izimpumputhe, ubona ngisho nezimpawu ze-MMD, khona-ke ubonisa ingane ngqo kudokotela, okokuqala ku-neurologist kanye nodokotela wezingane. Ngempela, ukwelashwa okufika ngesikhathi kuzoletha imiphumela ebalulekile esikhathini esingaphansi kakhulu. I-MMD ezinganeni iyakwelashwa, kuyilapho isimo sengane nengane yakhe kubaluleke kakhulu, futhi inhlanganisela yezindlela: ukunyakaza okusebenzayo, ukwesekwa kwengqondo nokufundisa kanye nemithi kuyosiza ukuqondisa ukuthuthukiswa kwengane ngendlela efanele.
- Indlela yokunyakaza okusebenzayo ikuvumela ukuba ufundise ukuxoshwa kwengane nokuxhumanisa, noma yimiphi imithwalo yezemidlalo izongena lapha, kodwa mhlawumbe ayikho uhlelo lokuncintisana.
- Ukwesekwa kwengqondo nokufundisa kunomthelela wokuvimbela ingane ngokubuka i-TV, imidlalo yekhompyutha, izindawo zezixuku ezinkulu zabantu nezinkampani ezinomsindo. Kubalulekile ukusungula umbuso wosuku lomntwana, ukuqhuba amakilasi ekuthuthukiseni inkumbulo, ukuthuthukisa ukunakwa. Khumbula, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umdumise njalo, ukhulume ngethoni elithambile nezolile, ugweme ukuvinjelwa nokuhlambalaza.
- Indlela yokusebenzisa izidakamizwa isetshenziselwa umcimbi wokuthi ababili abadlule abazange banikeze imiphumela efanele. Imithi (psychostimulants, anti-depressants) inqunywe udokotela kuphela, ngokusekelwe ezicini zomuntu ngamunye.
Izimpawu ze-MMD
Ngokuvamile, i-MMD ezinganeni zibonisa izimpawu zayo ngaphambi kokufinyelela eminyakeni engu-7. Abazali kufanele baqale ukuzwakala i-alamu uma izimpawu zalesi sifo zikhathaza ingane yabo njalo okungenani izinyanga eziyisithupha, hhayi kuphela ekhaya, kodwa futhi eqenjini. Izimpawu eziyinhloko, njengoba kukhonjisiwe ngenhla, ukukhathazeka kwengane, ukungaqapheli nokuzikhandla. Yilokho okushiwo la magama amathathu wezokwelapha:
- Umsebenzi ongenamandla: ingane igijima, iqhuma, i-spins, yenza izinyathelo ezihlukahlukene, ingathwali umthwalo we-semantic;
- Ukungabi nesifiso kwengane yokudlala imidlalo yokuthula ethule;
- akunakwenzeka ukwenza lo msebenzi kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekugcineni: ukungabikho ukunakwa, amaphutha amaningi, ukuphazamiseka okuqhubekayo ezintweni ezihlukahlukene zangaphandle;
- ukulahlekelwa izinto eziningi njalo ekusebenzeni imisebenzi ethile esikoleni, ukukhohlwa,
- ingane ayilaleli abantu abaphendukela kuye, uhlangana nabantu abadala, izingane;
- uphendula imibuzo ngaphandle kokucabanga, ngokuvamile ngaphandle kokulalela ukuphela;
- emidlalweni yokuqoqa nabangane akulindeli ukuphenduka kwayo, kungukungabi nonya.
Ukuxilongwa kwe-MMD emntwaneni akusikho isinqumo. Ngendlela efanele futhi ukufinyelela okufika ngesikhathi kubachwepheshe: isazi sezinzwa, udokotela wezingane, ochwepheshe wezinkulumo, isazi sengqondo - ingane yakho izokwazi ukuqhubeka ngokuvumelana ngokuthuthukisa nokukhula umuntu ophumelelayo. Uthando lwababelethi, ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa ngeke kuhlinzeke ukugula kanye nethuba lokuchitha amandla okungenzeka nokufihliwe kwamaphutha akho.