Ukuziphakamisa

Ukuzikhethela kuyinkomba yokuthi izici zendalo zivezwa kangakanani ekuziphatheni komuntu (ukufundela, ukuzalwa komzimba nokusinda). Ukuziqhenya okukhulu kubonisa umuntu oncike ekuziphatheni kwemvelo, nokuzibamba okuphansi komuntu onokucabanga kwakhe okwakhiwe ngokucabangela nangokwengqondo.

Ukuze ukwazi izinga lakho, ungadlulisa ukuhlolwa kokuqala. Cabangela inketho yabesifazane. Khetha enye yezinketho bese ufingqa wonke amaphuzu. Uma okukhethwa kukho okwedlulele akukhona ngawe, zibeke ibhola elihambisanayo kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-10.

1. Kubalulekile yini ukuba ukhulume njalo nezihlobo?

2. Ingabe ulawula imizwelo yakho noma ingabe ilawula izenzo zakho?

3. Kubalulekile yini ukuthi ube nezingane?

4. Ungaba yedwa isikhathi eside, noma udinga ukuxhumana?

5. Uyazilawula yini ekudleni (ukuphuza, ukubhema, ukuya ocansini) noma ukulawula nokuzihlambalaza?

6. Unesifiso sokwenza izimangaliso, ukukhuluma ngenhlanhla nokunye okungaqondakali?

7. Ungumuntu onokholo?

8. Ingabe kukhona ukwesaba okungenangqondo, ukubikezela kanye nezinto ezifanayo empilweni yakho?

9. Ingabe umshado ubaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho?

10. Kubalulekile yini ukuba ube ngumndeni, isizwe, iqembu, inkolo?

Iningi labantu ekuthatheni izinqumo lithembele kuzo zombili izimo nezizathu. Kodwa isilinganiso somqondo wengqondo singase sihluke.

Bala inani lamaphuzu akho. Ubuningi bubekwe yilo nani njengephesenti. Ukuphakamisa ukukhumbuza kwakho, ukuthembela ngokwengeziwe ezintweni eziphansi, ukunciphisa ukuthobeka - ukuqonda okuningi nokuhlakanipha. Ukuqhathanisa:

Uma izwe lithuthukile ngokwengeziwe, ukwehlisa izinga lokubambisana phakathi kwabakhileyo kulo.