Bambalwa abantu abazi ukuthi ukufana kufani, nakuba sivame ukuhlangana nakho ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Le nqubo iqhutshwa ngokuhlanganisa amaqembu ahlukene abe munye, enomgomo ofanayo. Le nqubo iqhutshwa ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene ezibalulekile zesayensi, amasiko nezengqondo.
Kuyini ukufaniswa?
Okwamanje, umqondo wokufanisa unemininingwane eminingi. Endaweni ngayinye, yiba yimithi, i-biology, inkolo, i-psychology, njalonjalo, kusho ukuhlanganiswa kweqembu elilodwa nomunye, ngenhloso yokushintsha esiteji sokugcina. Kubantu, ukufaniswa kuyinkqubo yokulahlekelwa kobuzwe, ngokukhetha amanye amasiko amasiko abantu. Ngakho, kwaholela ekuqothulweni okuphelele kwezimbalwa zabantu kanye nokuqedwa okuphelele kwamasiko abo. Kungaba ngezinhlobo eziningana:
- imvelo;
- udlame;
- ukucindezelwa.
Ukuhlanganiswa kwezenhlalakahle
Ezinguquko zenhlalo, le nqubo ihlale ikhona, ngoba iqinisekisa ukuthi imiphumela ephumelelayo. Umbuzo uvela: yini ukufaniswa futhi kusho ukuthini ukubandakanya emphakathini? Lena inqubo elula yokufaka izinto ezihlukile zomphakathi, enye evela kwabanye abantu. Kukhona uhlobo lokuhluleka ezingqondweni zabantu ababengaphansi kwesiko, inkolo noma ulimi lwabo.
Imvelo yokuzithandela yokuguqula isiko ehlukile ikhangayo futhi ngale ndlela ijika umuntu ngokushesha. Ngeshwa, empilweni kunezimo eziningi zokucindezela. Ngokuvamile kungabonwa ezindaweni lapho kwenziwa khona amasosha. Kukhona ukudluliselwa okuphoqelelwe, futhi uhulumeni unquma abantu, ukuthi yini okufanele bayikholelwe nokuthi baziphathe kanjani.
Ukuhlanganiswa kwe-Psychology
Kusukela ekuboneni kwengqondo, izizathu zokubambisana zivela ngokuzenzakalelayo, ngoba ngaphandle kokuba umuntu akwazi ukuthuthukisa ngokuvumelana. Leli gama lisho ingxenye eyodwa yenqubo yokuzivumelanisa, okuyinto yokuthola ulwazi olusha. Ukufaniswa kuyindlela elula yokwazi umhlaba , ngoba naye akudingeki ukwamukela ulwazi oluningi. Kusukela ekunganeni, lezi zikhathi zokufunda ziqoqa enkumbulweni bese zihlala lapho, zikhula kancane kancane.
Izimfanelo zokufaniswa
Umphumela ojwayelekile wokuhlanganiswa uhlukaniswe ngokuvumelana nezici ezenzakalweni zezilimi. Amagama amaningi alotshiwe ngenye indlela, futhi ukubiza kwawo okuzwakalayo kuhluke ngenye incwadi noma ezimbili. Lezi zinqubo zihlangatshezwa njalo ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, futhi inkhulumomphendvulwano yethu yokuhlangana ihlanganisa ukuphenduka okusha okusha nokujwayelekile. Ukuguquka kwemisindo efanayo kufakazela izibonakaliso ezilandelayo zokulinganisa ulimi:
- uxhumano - ukuhlanganiswa kwemisindo emibili eseduze;
- ukuqhubeka - umsindo owedlule uthinta okulandelayo;
- egcwele - imisindo ehlukene iyafana;
- Ukungafani - ukuhlanganiswa kwemisindo engahlali eceleni;
- ukuzulazula - umsindo olandelayo usithinta owedlule;
- hhayi ukuqedela - imisindo ihlala ihlukaniswa, kepha iguqulelana ngezizathu ezithile.
Kuyini ukufana okuhlukile kokungaboni?
Cishe zonke izinto emhlabeni zihlukile. Umehluko phakathi kokulinganisa nokungaziphathi kahle kuwukuthi esikhathini esidlule kukhona njalo ukuhlangana, okwesibili, ukubola. Lezi zinqubo zivame ukungalingani, ngakho-ke kukhona njalo ukungalingani. Okukhethwa kokuqala kuqoqa amandla, kanti okwesibili kuwuchitha futhi nanoma yikuphi ukwehluleka kuholela ezinkingeni. Ikakhulukazi kuhambisana nobudala. Inqubo yokufaniswa kwezingane ngaphambi kokukhula isathuthuka kakhulu, lapho ukutholakala kwamandla kunamandla ngaphezu kwezindleko zayo.