Ucabanga ukuthi ubukele? Ingabe kukhona umuzwa wokuthi into ehlehlisayo ihlela ngokumelene nawe? Siyakuhalalisela, unezibonakaliso ze-paranoia, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi uyaphazamiseka. Ngendlela, abantu abahlala futhi abazi ukuthi baxilongwa yizigidi, futhi abantu abawaziyo futhi bahlala nalokhu kuhloswe yizinkulungwane. Ukwesaba akudingekile, njengoba besho kwelinye lamabhayisikobho "abakho abantu abaphilile, kukhona okucwaningwa ngaphansi". Uma uqaphela ngokucophelela noma yikuphi umuntu uzothola ukungaqondakali okuningi kwengqondo noma izimpawu zabo.
Incazelo yegama elithi paranoid
NgesiGreki, i-paranoia isho ukungcola noma ukungafihli. I-paranoid ngumuntu obonisa ukusola nokungazethembi kwabanye. Ezimweni eziningi, i-paranoia ifihliwe. Uma ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ungafuni usizo lwabachwepheshe, khona-ke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi umuntu uba yingozi emphakathini, ngoba i-paranoia isisigaba esiphakathi lapho kuvela khona izifo eziningi ezingqondweni. I-paranoid ingachaza ngokucacile futhi ngokucacile imbangela yokusola nokungathembeki kwabanye. Uthatha yonke into ngezindleko zakhe, ngisho noma ingenalo lutho ngaye. Isibonelo esilula uma umuntu ezwa ukuthi ulandelwa, okubaluleke kakhulu, uzokwazi ukuthi kungani eshushiswa. Okushiwo empilweni yakhe kuyimpi elwa nesitha (futhi lo uyindoda yangempela owahluleka ukuphikisana ne-paranoia). Lapho ehlula isitha - ekugcineni kubonakala isitha esilandelayo, ngisho nangokweqile. Kodwa-ke, uma ubheka le nkinga kusuka ngaphesheya, futhi ukhumbule ubuntu obenza umlando wezwe lonke, ungabona ukuthi lesi sifo asizange sisivimbele, kodwa kunalokho kwaholela abantu abaningi ukuxhaphaza kanye nezimpi. Kwaze kwasiza ukuqoqa yonke intando ibe yingqikithi ukufeza imigomo yomholi we-paranoid. Emlandweni, sizothola ubuningi bezibonelo, lapho kutholakala ukuthi umqondo ophikisayo okhungethwe ingqondo uvusa abantu ukuba benze okungenakwenzeka.
Ungaphila nge-paranoid?
Kuhle ukunikeza iseluleko uma ungabhekana ngokuqondile nalokhu kugula. Kodwa uma ukuhlupheka kukushaya, othandekayo bakho noma abantu abathandekayo kuwe, umbuzo uphakama, "Kuthiwani uma ngiphakamisa? Indlela yokubhekana ne-paranoid? Futhi kuthiwani uma isoka lami noma umyeni wami ephazamisekile? "Ekuboneni kuqala, impendulo ilula, uma umthanda, bese uhlala naye. Futhi ungahlala kanjani ne-paranoid? Futhi emva kwakho konke, abaningi baphila futhi bahlupheke bonke ama-antics abayeni babo, abafana bachaza lokhu ngokuthi "emva kwakho konke, uyadabukisa kakhulu, ngubani okunye okudingayo ngaphandle kwami?" Ngifuna nje ukusho kubantu abanjalo - inhlanhla. Noma kunjalo, ngenxa yazo zonke izenzo zakho i-paranoiac inezimpendulo zayo futhi lapho iziphakamiso zakhe zihlanganiswe khona, ngisho yena ngokwakhe akazi. Uzwela ngaye, futhi wanquma ukuthi uhlehlisa omunye uhlangothi lwakhe futhi ngesikhathi nje uzama ukumnaka ukuze akwethembe. Futhi ukunaka kwakhe kuphezu kwezinganekwane, ulalelisisa zonke izinto ezincane ezenzeke kuye. Inhloko yakhe isebenza njalo uhlelo lokuphendula ekuhlaselweni okungenzeka kwabahlakaniphileyo. Yebo, uma esenaso isigaba sokuqala, futhi uma umthandi wakho ehamba nge-raznos nazo zonke izimpawu, konke kuxhomeke kuwe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyamsiza ukuba afune usizo kubachwepheshe (futhi ngokushesha abe inombolo yakhe yesitha 1), noma ushiye nje. Ukusuka kumuntu onomunye uhlobo
Ngenxa yalokho okushiwo ngenhla, kufanele sithi akukho izifo ezimbi, kukhona abantu abaseduze noma abazungezile abangafuni ukusiza othandekayo.