Abesifazane abaningi abakhulelwe, ikakhulukazi labo abathanda isisindo, bafuna ukubopha umntanami wezingane ezizayo. Ukuqala ukuhamba kwesikhathi okuthandayo, abesifazane abaningi bangase bahlangane nolwazi mayelana nokuvinjelwa kokubopha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Ngingazihlanganisa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa? Ukuziwayo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa akuvunyelwe. Kusuka kokubukwa kwezokwelapha, azikho ukuphikisana kulo mdlalo wokuzilibazisa wesifazane okhulelwe.
Kungani abesifazane abakhulelwe bengabanjwanga?
Kunenkolelo yokuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe abakwazi ukuhlanganiswa. Uma ubopha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ingane ekubelethweni ingawubopha intambo noma kuyoba nekhono emgqeni womlomo . Le nkolelo ayinakho ukuxhunyaniswa nenkinga yokwelapha eyinikezwe futhi inkolelo-ze. Kusukela ekuboneni kwesayensi, abukho ubufakazi baleqiniso. Inkolelo yokuthi akunakwenzeka ukuhlanganisa abesifazane abakhulelwe isekelwe ukuthi ezinsukwini ze-olden bahlangana ekamelweni elincane lokuphumula, behlezi isikhathi eside endaweni engakhululekile.
Ngingawasebenzisa yini abesifazane besifazane abakhulelwe?
Ungakwazi ukubopha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ngezinaliti zokubopha noma insimbi. Ukuheha okuthakazelisayo nokuthakazelisayo. Le ndlela yokuzilibazisa iqinisekisa umama olindele. Kusukela endaweni yokubuka kwengqondo, ukubopha izinto ingane kumlungiselela ukuba abe ngumama esikhathini esizayo, ngoba ubonisa ukukhathazeka kokuqala kwengane.
Ngingazihlanganisa nezinaliti?
Ukuqashelwa abesifazane abakhulelwe abanezinyosi ngomunye wemisebenzi ejwayelekile phakathi nale nkathi yokuphila. Ukuthola izinaliti zabesifazane abakhulelwe akuphikiswanga. Ukuthatha ukuthathwa ngokubopha, umama ozayo angalungiselela izinto eziningi ezidingekayo, njengezigqoko, izingubo zokulala, amasokisi, ama- booties nezinye izinto eziningi. Ukujwayela ngokuvamile kusebenzisa izinto zokwakha zemvelo, okuzokwenza ingane ezayo ikhululeke. Ungasebenzisa intambo eyenziwe ngeboya, ukotini, ilineni. Umntwana ukhula ngokushesha, ngakho kungcono ukumbopha izinto ngamasayizi ambalwa.
Ukuthola imithetho yokukhulelwa
Yiqiniso, ungabamba abesifazane abakhulelwe, naphezu kwazo zonke izinkolelo-ze. Kodwa, ngokuthakazela kakhulu kulo msebenzi owusizo, khumbula ukuthi udinga ukuhlanganiswa:
- ngokukhanya okuhle;
- endaweni ephephile;
- kudingekile ukuthi ungahlali endaweni engakhululekile, ukuguqula;
- ngaphansi kwezinyawo, ungafaka umcamelo, uwakhulise, ukuze igazi lingadli ngenkathi ehlezi endaweni eyodwa.
Okunye okuzijabulisa kwakho ngokuhamba emoyeni omusha. Yaziwa kuze kube sekukhathala kokuqala. Ungathathi ukubopha njengomsebenzi ophoqelekile okudingeka wenziwe. Yaziwa ngenjabulo yakho nangomntanakho.