Omunye umama omusha, ohlela ukubhalisa ukubonisana kwabesifazane, kudingeka ukuba akhiphe isitifiketi sokubeletha kanye nekhadi lokushintshanisa. Kodwa-ke, akubona wonke umuntu oqonda ukubaluleka kwala madokhumenti futhi kaningi akwazi ngisho nalapho ikhishwa lokukhishwa elikhulelwe likhishwa nokuthi kungani lenziwa. Ake sicabangele ndawonye inqubo nencazelo yokukhipha le dokhumenti.
Ikhadi elikhulelwe likhishwe nini?
Ngokubonisana okuhlukile, ifomu lekhadi lokushintshanisa lomama okhulelwe lingabonakala njengomagazini, i-prospectus encane noma iphepha eliphethwe yi-accordion. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, owesifazane uyithola ngokushesha, ngokushesha nje lapho enquma ukubhalisa. Uma owesifazane okhulelwe enikezwa ikhadi lokushintshanisa, udokotela ubhala kuye yonke imininingwane ephathelene nomama ozayo, isikhathi sokutholwa, imiphumela yokuhlolwa nezifundo, usuku olulindelekile lokulethwa nolunye ulwazi olubalulekile. Uma kunikezwa ikhadi lokushintshanisa, owesifazane angaqiniseka ukuthi noma yimuphi udokotela, uma kwenzeka ukubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma ukucindezeleka kokukhulelwa, ngokushesha uhamba ngesimo.
Ukwenziwa kwekhadi lokushintshanisa lomama okhulelwe kufanele kwenziwe ngemuva kwenyanga ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Kodwa kaningi abesifazane besabambelela ekwamukeleni okusheshayo, ukuze bahlale benalo lonke ulwazi oludingekayo.
Abanye omama ozayo ababhekene nenkinga yokuthola ikhadi lokushintshanisa, futhi abafuni ukuvakashela njalo ukululekwa nokuhlolwa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa , bazama ukuthenga ifomu eligcwalisiwe ngokuphelele lombhalo. Lena iphutha elikhulu elingashintsha emiphumeleni engalingani ngesikhathi sokubeletha.
Ikhadi lokushintshaniswa eligcwele labesifazane abakhulelwe kufanele lithwale ulwazi olugcwele noluthembekile mayelana nesimo sempilo yowesifazane kanye nengane, okuyinto ezoba yimbandlela eyengeziwe yenqubo evamile yokulethwa. Uma besayine ikhadi elikhulelwe, kufanele lisayinwe udokotela oyinhloko kokubonisana kwabesifazane kanye nomjozi wezifo ezibelethweyo.