Ngingakhulelwa yini umbiko ophazamisekile?

Abesifazane abasebenzisa indlela yokuphila njengendlela yokuvimbela ukukhulelwa okungafuneki nabo banesithakazelo embuzweni wokuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi bakhulelwe ukulala ngokocansi (PA). Leli gama livame ukubizwa ngokuthi oxhumana naye, lapho umlingani ngaphambi kokukhipha khona, ususa ipeni kusuka ebesini.

Le ndlela ingenye yezinto ezivame kakhulu; ayidingi ukuba khona kwanoma yikuphi ukukhulelwa okungeziwe ( izinsimbi zemiklamo, amakhondomu ).

Kodwa-ke, naphezu kwayo yonke into elula futhi, kubonakala sengathi, ukuphepha, ukukhulelwa nesenzo esiphazamisayo kwenzeka kaningi. Emithonjeni ehlukahlukene yezokwelapha, ungathola mayelana nezibalo ezinjalo: kuma-paire angama-20 kwabangu-100, njalo usebenzisa le ndlela yokuvikela njengenhloko, iminyaka engu-1, ukukhulelwa kwenzeka. Ake sizame ukuthola futhi sithole: ungakhulelwa kanjani isenzo esiphazamisayo nokuthi yikuphi amathuba okuba umanyolo uzokwenzeka.

Yini ebangela ukukhulelwa emva kwe-PA?

Ekuqaleni, lochwepheshe beqiniso abaphenya ngale nkinga yenkinga, bachaza ukuthi cishe kunomkhuhlane okhishwa yindoda ngesikhathi sokuthakazelisa kakhulu, kukhona namaseli ocansi. Kodwa-ke, emva kokuhlola okuningi nokucwaninga, kwavela ukuthi i-spermatozoa okuthiwa "ukugcoba" ayikho ngokuphelele. Uma kungenjalo, bekungachaza kanjani ukuthi kungani imibhangqwana eminingi eseyisebenzise isikhathi eside isithinteli ngokobulili njengendlela yokukhulelwa.

Ngokusho kwemiphumela yocwaningo, amathuba okukhulelwa nokuphazamiseka ngokobulili kuncike ngokuphelele ekuziphatheni komuntu. Ngesikhathi sezocansi, lo mlingani uzizwa ngendlela ye-orgasm - ejaculation, futhi konke kuncike ekutheni uzoba nesikhathi sokukhipha ipenisi ebuhlotsheni besifazane esikhathini esizayo, noma cha. Njengoba wazi, konke kuza nesipiliyoni, ngakho-ke akubona bonke abantu abanokuzithiba okwanele.

Kumele futhi kuqaphele ukuthi amathuba okukhulelwa ngesenzo esithintekile sincike kwezinye izici eziningana, okungukuthi:

• ukungabi nobuhlanze obuseduze kubantu emva kokulala. Leli qiniso libaluleke kakhulu lapho oxhumana nabo abaningana ngokocansi belandelana ngemva kwekhefu elifushane. Ezimweni ezinjalo, amaseli amagciwane avela emthonjeni we-seminal ohlala emgodleni wejwabu angangena emzimbeni;
• okwenza uthando ezinsukwini ezandulele i-ovulation noma ngesikhathi lapho kwenzeka khona, ukusebenzisa ukulala ngokobulili okuphazamisekile kwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa.

Yilezi zimbili ezimbili eziyimpendulo yombuzo wokuthi umuntu angakhulelwa kanjani uma umuntu ephazamisa ukulala ngokocansi ngaphambi kokuba ahlasele.

Ekhuluma ngale ndlela yokuvikela, awukwazi ukubiza ngokunembile amathuba okukhulelwa njengephesenti, ngoba ngesenzo esithintekile, abanye besifazane bangakhulelwa masinyane emva kokuqala kokusebenzisa le ndlela. Yonke imithwalo yemfanelo ikhona kumuntu kanye nokukwazi kwakhe ukuzithiba, okuyinto okunzima ukuyilawula, ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi se-orgasm.

Ingabe i-PA iyingozi empilweni?

Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi le ndlela yokuvimbela ukukhulelwa ineziningi, okuthiwa imivimbo, engathinta impilo yabantu.

Okokuqala, ngaloluhlobo loxhumana naye ngokocansi, yonke imicabango yomuntu ixhunywe nendlela yokuvimbela uketshezi lwesimiso sokungena emzimbeni wesifazane. Imicabango efanayo ingavakashelwa owesifazane. Ngenxa yalokho, bobabili abalingani bezocansi abakwazi ukuphumula ngokuphelele, okuyinto ekugcineni kuphazamise isimo sengqondo sabashadile. Ngenxa yalokho, zibacasula kakhulu, ziphuthume.

Okwesibili, kubalulekile ukuthi siqaphele ukuthi impilo yomuntu ngenxa yezenzo zobulili eziphazamisekile ingase ishukunyiswe. Iqiniso liwukuthi izenzo ezinjalo ziholela ezinkampanini zokuvuvukala ohlelweni lokuzala. Njengoba kunikezwe leli qiniso, odokotela abaningi batusa ukungasebenzisi le ndlela yokuvikelwa noma ukuyenza ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu futhi ezingavamile.