Sifuna ukuba nomntwana - kufanele siqale kuphi?
Abanye odokotela bathi uma lo mbhangqwana uphilile, ukukhulelwa kuzokuza ngokushesha futhi kungabi nomzamo omkhulu. Abasekeli bale mbono baxwayiswa ukuba baqale ukuhlela uma benesifiso, hhayi ukukhathazeka ngokulethwa kwezivivinyo. Kodwa-ke, konke akulula kakhulu, futhi lapha akufanele ukukhohlwa mayelana nezifo ezifihlekile okungenzeka zibe "esimweni esibuhlungu", kodwa ekukhulelwe, kokubili emntwaneni kanye nasesidodeni sangesikhathi esizayo kubangela izinkinga eziningi.
Sifuna indoda enomntwana futhi sivakashele udokotela - yilapho udinga ukuqala ukuhlela ukukhulelwa kwakho. Ukubonisana nodokotela wezifo zogciwane kunconywa owesifazane ukuze ahlole impilo yakhe futhi anqume ukuthi kukhona izinqubo zokuzivikela kanye nokuvuvukala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyadingeka ukuthi uhlaziye ukutheleleka nge- TORCH. Ukuqala kanjani indoda, ukuze inkulumo ethi "ifuna ukukhulelwa ingane" ayiphendukeli umsindo ongenalutho, - ukulethwa kwe- spermogram ukucacisa ukwakheka kwekhwalithi ye-seminal fluid.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abazali besikhathi esizayo bayelulekwa ukuba balandele umbuso ofanele nosuku:
- ukuphumula okuningi nokulala okungenani amahora angu-8 ngosuku;
- Hlanganisa umsebenzi omzimba osebenzayo nesimo sezinzwa;
- ukuqeda imikhuba emibi: ukubhema, utshwala, njll;
- engeza izinhlanzi zokudla nezilwane zasolwandle, amafutha yemifino, ama-legumes nemifino.
Ngakho, le nkulumo ithi: "Ngifuna ingane yesibili, kodwa lapho ngizoqala khona - angikhumbuli," akufanele ihlazeke. Ukuze ukhulelwe ngokuphindaphindiwe, uhlu lwezenzo lufana nolokuqala: vakashela udokotela, uphumule futhi udle ngokulungile, uhole indlela yokuphila enempilo. Zonke lezi zenzo ngeke zenze ukuthi ulinde isikhathi eside, futhi maduzane uzobona imikhakha emibili elinde isikhathi eside ekuhlolweni.