Kungani ungafuni ukuya ocansini ngesikhathi ukhulelwe?
Esinye sezizathu ezithandwayo kakhulu zokuchaza ukuthi kungani owesifazane engafuni ucansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuyisifo sofuzo. Lesi simo, esinezinhlanzi, ubuthakathaka, ukulala nokulala njalo, ngokuvamile kunciphisa umama olindelekile ukuthi ulahlekelwa inzalo kuyo yonke into, kufaka phakathi ubudlelwane obuseduze. Njengomthetho, uma isizathu sokungafuni ukulala ocansini sigcwele i- toxicosis, ngemuva kokuphela kwe-trimester yokuqala isimo sijwayelekile, futhi umama olindelekile uqala ukuzwa ukukhangwa ngokobulili kumlingani wakhe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane abaningi abathwele umntwana bahlushwa yizinkathazo, ukwesaba nazo zonke izinhlobo zokuhlangenwe nakho okungokomzwelo okungase "kuphazamise" i-libido. Abanye omama esikhathini esizayo ezingeni elingenakuqhathaniswa besaba ukulimaza ingane engakazalwa, ngakho-ke ngokuzithandela bayeka ubudlelwano bocansi.
Okokugcina, kubalulekile ukuthi kuqaphele ukuthi ezinye zezocansi ezithandanayo zocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa zibangele ubuhlungu futhi zingahambi kahle. Lokhu kuchazwa ngethonya legazi elengeziwe ezithombeni zofuzo, kanye nokugcoba izigulane ezincelisayo futhi, ikakhulukazi, zezinsipho. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi omama abaningi esikhathini esizayo abafuni ukuya ocansini nomlingani, ngoba besaba ukuzwa umuzwa ongajabulisayo futhi.