Isibhedlela somuntu ngamunye sihlotshaniswa nezinto ezehlukene. Ngomunye umuntu uphawu lokujabula, ukululama, nabanye abantu besaba izikhungo ezinjalo. Amaphupho abuye abe nokungaqondakali okufanayo, lapho into eyinhloko kwakuyisibhedlela. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi leli phupho lisho ukuthini, kubalulekile ukuhlaziya ngokucophelela lokho okubonwayo kucatshangelwa yonke imininingwane, kanye nokulayisha ngokomzwelo. Iphupho libuye lincoma ukufanisa ulwazi olutholiwe nemicimbi eyenzeka ngokoqobo.
Kungani isibhedlela siphupha?
Iphupho, lapho ushiye esibhedlela, libonisa ukuthi uzokwazi ukubhekana nezitha nezinkinga ezikhona. Uma uthathwa esikhungweni esinjalo "Usizo Lokuqala", khona-ke ungathembela ekusizeni ekuxazululeni izinkinga. Umbono ebusuku, lapho usesibhedlela, uxwayisa ngokuthi kwenzeke izinkinga ezinkulu ezibonakalayo, futhi ungase uzithole usisidenge. Lokhu kuyisixwayiso sokuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuphumula, ngoba, ngaphandle kwalokho, konke kungagcina ekuguleni. Iphupho lapho ungena esibhedlela kuyisixwayiso mayelana nokuqala kwesifo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Enye into ongazithatha iseluleko ukuthi kufanele uqaphele, njengoba izitha zikulungele ukuthuthela esenzweni esisebenzayo. Uma usebenza esibhedlela, khona-ke ekuphileni kuyofika isikhathi esinzima.
Kuyothakazelisa ukwazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini uma isibhedlela nendlu enkulu bephupha. Lo mbono ebusuku ubonisa umuzwa wesizungu . Ngokomunye wezincwadi zokuphupha empilweni, sekufike isikhathi esizoshintsha kakhulu inkambo yokuphila. Uma ubona isibhedlela kanye nokusebenza - kungaba yincoma ukuthi kufanele uqaphele kakhulu ngempilo yakho. Enye yezincwadi zokuphupha kunolwazi lokuthi umbono wesibhedlela wesibonakaliso uyisibonakaliso esihle futhi ubikezela ukunqoba izitha. Amaphupho ebusuku, lapho uhamba khona emigwaqweni yesibhedlela, ubonisa ukuthi esimweni esinzima ungathembela ekusizeni abanye. Ukuchazwa kwephupho, ukuthi yini amaphupho esibhedlela, lapho kwakudingeka khona ukugeza, ukuhumusha, njengesimpawu esihle. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ungalindela ukuqhubeka phambili esiteji somsebenzi.
Umnyango wezokwelapha esibhedlela uyisibonakaliso sokuntuleka kokusekelwa kwabanye abantu. Ephusheni unesifo sokuhlukumezeka - lokhu kuyisixwayiso ukuthi uma ungaqedi imikhuba emibi, kufanele ulindele ukugula okungathí sina. Ukuze uhlanganyele ukwakhiwa kwesibhedlela, kusho ukuthi maduzane ungathola isipho esingalindelekile ezihlotsheni ezikude.
Yini esibhedlela esibhedlela?
Isikhungo salolu hlobo sibonisa ukuba khona kwengcindezi eqinile ngokomzwelo, okuzobangelwa izinkinga ezikhona. Kukhona nolwazi lokuthi iphupho elinjalo likhombisa ukuthi kukhona okuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphakathi. Uhlale ucabanga ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nesimo.
Kuyini ukuvakashela esibhedlela nodokotela?
Uma uvakashela omunye umuntu esikhungweni esifanayo, kufanele ulindele izindaba ezimbi. Ngisho nephupho elinjalo lixwayisa ukuthi esikhathini esizayo othile uzokucela umusa, futhi ngeke ukwazi ukulahla. Umbono ebusuku, lapho uvakashela khona umuntu esibhedlela, ubonisa ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze impilo yezihlobo nabangane abaseduze, akukho lutho olungasongelwa.
Kungani owesifazane okhulelwe ephupha ngesibhedlela?
Iphupho elinjalo lingaba yisixwayiso mayelana nokuvela kokukhulelwa kwesisu. UDreambook uncoma ukungaphuthelwa ukuvakashelwa kudokotela.