Izingane

Iminyaka yethu inomusa ekukhuleni kwezinhlangano ezihlukahlukene zomphakathi ezihlanganisa abantu abanombono wezwe ofanayo. Ithonya elikhulu kakhulu ekubunjweni kwamaqembu anjalo kunikezwa ubuchwepheshe bamuva, ikakhulukazi, i-Inthanethi. Isibonelo, ukuhamba kwezingane ezingenabantwana ezweni lethu kwakungokuqala kokukhulunywa ngabasebenzisi abasebenzayo be-intanethi - ama-blogger kanye nezikhathi zokuxhumana zenhlalo. Ukuphikisana akupheleli kuze kube yilolu suku, abanye basekela futhi bavikele abamele ukunyakaza ngazo zonke izindlela, kuyilapho abanye bebizwa ngehlazo. Ngakho-ke laba besifazane namadoda bani?

I-Childfree yiyiphi?

Igama elithi Childfree (kusukela "enganeni" yesiNgisi - ingane, "mahhala" - mahhala) kusho abantu abazi ngokungafuni ukuba nabantwana. Umlando womqondo kunzima ukulandelela, kucatshangwa ukuthi waziswa ngokungafani negama elithi "engenabantwana", elibonisa labo abangenalo ithuba lokuthola inzalo.

Abantu chayldfri - psychopaths!

Enenethiwekhi, ungathola abantu abaningi abalungele ukuthi "bazonda i-chayldfri", becabangela abameleli bale nhlangano njengezibonelo ezimbi kunazo zonke zomphakathi wesintu. Ingabe kuyiqiniso noma bayaphikisa yini ezinganeni ezingenabantwana?

1. Abantu abakhuthaza inkululeko ezinganeni bazondayo futhi bayakuthanda inzalo nokukhulelwa.
2. Abazali be-Childfree movement babhekisela kubantu abangekho kwimvelo yabo njengoba bebeletha ama-idiots, bekholelwa ukuthi abangewona isinyathelo abantu abakwazi ukufeza imiphumela emihle.
3. I-Childfree ngabantu abanokukhubazeka kwengqondo abaphikisa umphakathi ngokuphazamisa isiphetho sabo semvelo.
4. Akukhona ukuthi isifiso sokuba nezingane sifakazela ukungabi khona kwezimiso zokuziphatha, laba bantu abanakho ukucabanga ngokuziphatha, becabanga ukuthi umndeni uyisikhungo esingasebenzi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi lwenhlangano ye-chayldfri

Akunakwenzeka ukwenza isahlulelo sakho nganoma yisiphi isenzakalo, ngaphandle kokukucabangela kusuka ezinhlangothini zombili. Iziphakamiso zabasekeli bomqondisi we-anti-childfri esitholile, uhlala uthola amagama okuvikela izingane mahhala ezinganeni.

1. Ngokuqinisekile wonke umuntu omele ukunyakaza kwengane angasho ukuthi "Ngizonda izingane." Ngaphezu kwalokho, abaningi bathanda "izimbali zokuphila", kodwa hhayi kuphela ensimini yabo.
2. Kwenye into chayldfri kahle - ukuzidela emndenini, akunakwenzeka ukwakha umsebenzi. Ngesinye isikhathi empilweni, wonke umuntu (ikakhulukazi owesifazane) ukhetha indlela enjalo ngokwabo, ofuna ukufinyelela phezulu kwesiteji somsebenzi.
3. Ukukhuluma ngokuphambuka kwengqondo kungenzeka kuphela uma kwenzeka ukulandela ngephutha umqondo (ukushiseka). Isicelo senselele emphakathini kunalokho kunengqondo. Akusiwo yini umphakathi ofanayo oshayayo kuma-hysterics, ukukhuluma ngokukhulelwa kwentsha, ukuzalwa kwezingane emindenini ephansi engenayo? Ingabe lokhu kukhuluma ngokukhulelwa kwemithi kubonakala kubi?
4. I-Childfree ayikhuthazi ukuziphatha okubi, phakathi kwabo kukhona imibhangqwana eminingi ephilayo emshadweni ozwakalayo. Ukungafuni ukuba nezingane kungase kulungiswe yi-egoism yomuntu siqu nokwesaba umthwalo wemfanelo, kodwa akufanele ukusika usayizi owodwa kufanelana nakho konke, izizathu zokungabikho kwezingane zingahluka kakhulu.
5. I-Childfree ingakwazi futhi ihambe ngokumelene nemvelo, kodwa wonke umuntu unelungelo lokunquma isiphetho sakhe siqu. Futhi akekho, nohulumeni, noma umphakathi onelungelo lokumisela ubuntu obuthile ohlelweni lokuziphatha mayelana nezinkinga zomndeni kanye nokuzalwa kwezingane.

Ingane iyinjabulo enkulu kakhulu, kodwa kuphela uma ifunwa. Uma umuntu engakakulungeli ukuziphatha ngokubonakala komntwana, ke yini engalungile ngokungafuni kwakhe ukuthola inzalo? Yiqiniso, abantu abangenele phakathi kwengane engatholakali nengane bayatholakala, kepha kuningi labo phakathi "kwezibonelo."