Qala ukulahlekelwa isisindo ngoMsombuluko? Noma kusukela ngosuku lokuqala lwenyanga ezayo? Khona-ke wena, mhlawumbe, ungenaso isisusa esanele, futhi udle okuthile okumnandi kuwe, okwamanje, kubaluleke ngaphezu kwesibalo esincane. Wena ngokwakho uyakuqonda lokhu ngokuphelele, yingakho uhlehlisa ukulahlekelwa kwesisindo. Futhi, lokho, ngakho-ke kuhle kakhulu.
Uma lokhu okuphathelene nawe, isinyathelo sokuqala sokulahlekelwa isisindo kumele sifundze isihloko sokuthi ungathinta kanjani ukulahlekelwa isisindo.
Into yokuqala okudingeka ukwenze ukukhetha usuku lokuqala lokudla. Akusuka kuNyaka Omusha hhayi ngemuva kuka-8 kuMashi. Shiya ngokwakho ngesonto ngaphambi kokuqala kwe "I" entsha, ukuze ulungiselele kahle ukulahlekelwa isisindo.
Ukulungiselela ukulahlekelwa isisindo
Ngalesi sonto, kumele uqede isikhathi sakho esidlule bese uzizinikela ekucabangeni mayelana nendlela yokuzicabangela ngokwengqondo ekulahlekelweni kwesisindo.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu emzimbeni wokulahlekelwa isisindo, ukukhetha ukuthi yini, eqinisweni, edinga ukunciphisa isisindo. Futhi umgomo kufanele ube osebenzayo, ukuze ngesikhathi sokudla ungaphuzi futhi ungatholi zonke izinkinga zabo zibe mnandi (ukuthi uthando lwabesifazane luyingozi kanjani!). Ngakho-ke, wonke umuntu unemizwa yokuphulukisa ukuze alahlekelwe isisindo, kodwa kukhona into futhi into efanayo:
- ukuthanda umyeni wakhe, ukubuyisela umyeni wakhe emndenini wakhe, ukushisa "ilangabi" lothando oluye laphela iminyaka yakhe yokulala;
- thola umyeni / isoka, njengomuntu ongakunaki, faka ku-MCH yakho yangaphambili ukuthi usengaphezu kwesimo esishiye kuso;
- noma kulula: ungene emgodweni womshado, uphume ekugcineni ogwini, unganqikazi ukuzithenga lokho okuthandayo, hhayi lokho ongena khona.
Maye, madodakazi othandekayo, zonke lezi zinhloso ezibaluleke kakhulu akuzona "isikhathi eside". Njengoba izibalo zibonisa, ungasetha ubuchopho ukuze ulahlekelwe isisindo, uzenzele wena kuphela, futhi ungamjabulisi umuntu. Ngakho-ke, ukuzithokozisa emakhaleni, kufanele uzithande futhi uthande umzimba wakho (kokubili amafutha kanye nomzimba omncane), ngoba kuphela ngenxa yomzimba wakho othandekayo ungadlula kuzo zonke izidlo, ukuthuthumela kuze kube seqophelweni lokungcola, futhi uhola indlela ehlukahlukene yokuphila emva kokuphela kokudla.
- Ukugqugquzela kubhalwe phansi kwidayari, ngaleyo ndlela,
yimiphi imiphumela esiyilindele esikhathini esizayo, okungukuthi - yini ezosilethela umzimba omzimba omncane (umsebenzi omusha, umfel 'ukholo omusha, usayizi wokugqoka oyifunayo). - Iviki ngaphambi kokuqala, sihlanza yonke ifriji yokudla "okungalungile," futhi uthenge konke okudingayo sonke isikhathi sokudla, ukuze kamuva, uma ufika esitolo, ungaphuli.
- Thola ukuphazamiseka! Awukwazi ukucabanga ngokulahlekelwa isisindo amahora angu-24 ngosuku. Qala ukudla, hlanganisa nokuzilibazisa okusha, ukuzilibazisa. Ukudala kuyosiza ekucabangeni phezulu, hhayi ngokudla.
Yehlisa isisindo, ube mnandi futhi ube efiselekayo! Ngempela, sonke sihle kakhulu ngaphakathi, sidinga nje ukubuyisela igobolondo ngokuqukethwe okubalulekile!