Akungabazeki ukuthi kuyoba nomzali ongakaze azwe ngokuthuthukiswa kwezingane zakuqala , isidingo, ukuphumelela nokusebenza kahle. Futhi umuntu angacabangi kanjani ngokufundisa ingcweti uma kunamasu amaningi amasha asanda kushaywa, eqinisekisa ukuthi uma ungahlakuleli ingane engaphansi kweminyaka emithathu ubudala, ngeke iphume kuye. Kungani, phakathi kwezizukulwane eziningi ezingenalo mbono omncane wokuthuthukiswa kwentuthuko, bekukhona yini ukuhlakanipha, abantu abanekhono futhi abaphumelelayo nje? Umbuzo uwukuhlekisa, kodwa kukukwenza ucabange.
Izimpawu
Akekho ophikisana neqiniso lokuthi umntwana othuthukile uzizwa eqotho eqenjini, uqeqeshwa kalula futhi uthola injabulo esikoleni. Umbuzo uwukuthi, yikuphi kanye nokuthi yikuphi uhlobo lokuthuthukiswa okuzofezwa. Okubi nakakhulu lapho ingane isongelwa izinhlamvu nezibalo kuphela ngoba umfana womakhelwane usevele efunda eminyakeni emibili ubudala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umama owake wezwa lokhu endaweni yokudlala akufanele aqiniseke ngamehlo akhe, inkulumo eyodwa yanele ukuthi umqondo wokungahleleki kwengane yakhe ngokumelene nesizinda samanye ama geek umiswe ngokuqinile ekhanda ... Mhlawumbe uphawu oluyinhloko lwesifo sabazali banamuhla abanegciwane lokuthuthukiswa kwangaphambili lingabizwa ngokuthi isifiso sokufundisa ukufunda nokulandisa. Kodwa abantwana bafunda umhlaba ngokusebenzisa imizwelo, ngalokho abakubonayo nokuzwayo, okungukuthi, izinombolo nezinhlamvu azihlangani nokubunjwa kwesithombe sokuphila, ukuqonda izimo, izinto, ukuziphatha, nokunye okuningi.
Ukuxilongwa
Uma abazali bezithenga zonke izinsiza zokufundisa, ama-cubes namaphilisi encwadini, bafaka imithetho yokupela isipelingi kanye neziphumlisi, amatafula kaMendeleev, uBradys nomunye umuntu, futhi benza isimiso esicacile samakilasi anonyaka owodwa nengxenye ubudala, umuntu angaba nesihawu kuphela yena nabazali bakhe. Ngeshwa, isifiso esinjalo ngokushesha sokufundisa ikharikhulamu yesikole ngokuvamile sihlotshaniswa nezifiso ezingagcwaliseki zabazali ngokwabo. Lesi sifiso sokufakazela ukuthi ngingumama ohamba kahle noma ubaba ongcono, ngoba nginomntwana ohlakaniphileyo onjalo onolwazi.
Izinkinga
Kunomzuzwana owodwa ohlakaniphile ongokwengqondo ongamukeleki kumongo wokuthuthukiswa kokuqala. Ake sithi abazali bayakwazi ukuthuthukisa amakhono angavamile enganeni, ukukhulisa ingane encane , abafundisi enkulisa bayamdumisa, kanti othisha esikoleni samabanga aphansi abaza ukuvakashela abangane bomama ngeke bayeke ukuhlonipha "u-Eugene Onegin" okukhulunywa ngenhliziyo, njll. Ngokwemvelo, ngaphezu kweminyaka "yokuqeqesha" ingane inomuzwa wokuthi uyabalulekile, futhi okudabukisayo, umlutha wenziwa - isifiso sokufundisa akusiyo ngoba siyathandeka, kodwa ngoba sikhuthaza. Ingane encane enekhono ngokuthuthukiswa ihlangana neontanga, ukuze ikhule ngokwanele, iyafana nayo yonke. Uyaqiniseka ukuthi angayithatha kabi? Uqinisekile ukuthi njengomuntu omdala ungazihlola ngokwahlukileyo? Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi abantu abanjalo ngokuvamile bajabule. Ngempela, empeleni, kunenqubo eguquguqukayo - hhayi ukuthuthukiswa komuntu, kodwa ukulahlekelwa okuthile kwalokho okwakubaluleke kakhulu kwabanye.
Ukwelapha
Thembela ingane yakho! Kusukela ekuzalweni kwakhe, ulwandle lwolwazi luwehlela phezu kwakhe, olwenza kahle, lungamsiza ukuthi azi umhlaba. Ngempela, esikhundleni sokufundisa indlela