Ukuzwela kubonakala ngekhono lempilo ephilayo ukubhekana nokucasuka, umthombo wendawo yangaphandle noma yangaphakathi. Ukutadisha leli khono kudlala indima enkulu ekunqumeni isimo sesimiso sezinzwa. Umuntu ngamunye uphendula ngokungafani nokucasuka okuhlukahlukene, ngaleyo ndlela atadishe umhlaba futhi aguqule kuwo. Abanye baye bakhulisa ukuzwela.
Umqondo wokuzwela
Kukhona abantu ababizwa ngokuthi abazwela ekuziphatheni kwengqondo. Bangabantu abasengozini kakhulu futhi bezwela, banembeza owandayo kanye nokuthambekela okuqhubekayo kokungabaza imicabango yabo nezenzo zabo. Ukwandisa ukuzwela ngokomzwelo kungabonwa kaningi noma ngisho nokuhlala unomphela. Ngokuvamile lesi simo sandulelwe ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo okuhlukahlukene, bheka:
- ukucindezeleka;
- i-neurosis;
- izifo zobuchopho;
- ukucindezeleka;
- ukukhubazeka komuntu;
- ukukhathazeka;
- ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kwendalo engapheli;
- ukulimala komqondo ngama-toxin.
Uzwela olwandayo lwesimiso sezinzwa luyabonakala kubantu banoma yimuphi ubudala nobulili, kodwa ngokuvamile kuvame ukutholakala ezinganeni zamadoda nabesilisa. Umuntu onjalo unemisipha ebusweni obunemisipha, ukunyakaza kwe-eyeballs ukukhubazeka. Ngenxa yokuwohloka kokuma kwesikhala nesikhala, abantu abanjalo abaqoqiwe futhi bahlangene. Bahlushwa ikhanda nokulala , kungase kube khona ukulibaziseka ekuthuthukiseni kwengqondo.
Umbono obuhlungu uhlukile kubo bonke abantu. Ukweluleka kokwanda kobuhlungu kuxhomeke kubuhlanga kanye nobulili, iminyaka, isimo sesimiso sezinzwa ezizimele kanye nenani elikhulu lezinto eziphilayo, eziphilayo kanye nezingokwengqondo. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umuntu ubona kanjani ubuhlungu futhi uyayiphatha.