Amandla ebulili wesifazane, njengomthetho, aqala ukuvuza ngesikhathi samathambo - cishe iminyaka engu-14, kanti izimbali eziningi zifinyelela eminyakeni engu-18. Yiqiniso, lokhu akuyona i-axiom, ngaphezu kwalokho, amantombazane abantu abathile "bavuthiwe" ekuqaleni. Kodwa, ngokuphelele, kungenzeka ukuba ucabange ngalesi sikhathi isikhathi sokubunjwa kwamandla wesifazane ocansini. Ukuqhubeka nokuphila kwethu kuqhutshwa ngamandla njalo, kufaka phakathi ucansi.
Ukunciphisa amandla wezocansi
Ngokuqinisekile uyakhumbula kusukela enkolweni yesikole ye-physics ukuthi awekho amandla angase aphele. Vele ushintshe. Lokhu kusebenza futhi kumandla wesifazane ocansini. Uhlala ebuka i-outlet, futhi kubalulekile ukwazi ukulawula nokusebenzisa amandla ocansi ngendlela ephumelelayo ukuze ungatholi umphumela wendabuko: ukuvutha komsindo, ukuhlukumezeka, ukukhula ukucindezeleka, ukudla okunzima ngokweqile, njll. Phela, umphumela we-sublimation yamandla wezocansi, ingaba enye amandla eqondiswe "esiteshini sokuthula". Ngakho-ke, abanye besifazane baphala imizwelo yabo evesini, abanye - kulabo abahamba ngezinyawo, abanye - bazibonakalisa esiteji, okwesine - bahlanganyele ngothando. Ukucabangela ukuthi ungashintsha kanjani amandla angasetshenziswanga ocansini, ukhetha indlela ye-sublimation eyaziwayo. Uzinikeze ukukhetha.
Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke: kunoma yikuphi, ungagodli isifiso ngosizo lwezinsolo ekhelini lakho. Abesifazane abaningi bapheqa enhloko yemicabango ehlobene nokuthi abafanelanga umuntu othile, abanye baze bacabange ukuthi ubulili ngumsebenzi ongcolile. Uma amandla ezocansi omuntu afakwa ngendlela yokwesaba nokwetyala, khona-ke uzothola indlela yokuphuma emizimbeni emibi. Phatha i-sublimation ngokuhlukile: uguqule amandla ezocansi (okungukuthi, nganoma yisiphi isizathu, awukwazi ukuthola indlela eqondile yokuphuma) ekungeneni okungokomoya nakakhulu, okungukuthi, ukukhuphuka phezulu kwe-chakra. Izinkondlo ezimangalisayo, umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa, i-cross-twine, emva kwakho konke-konke lokhu kungaba umphumela wokuphathwa okulungile kwamandla wezocansi.
Kodwa-ke, ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi awudingi ukucabanga ukuthi ungashintsha kanjani into - impilo yanamuhla ivame ukusuka kithi amandla okulala ngokocansi. Futhi-ke ucabanga ukuthi ungayiphinde kanjani endleleni.
Indlela yokwandisa amandla wezocansi?
Okokuqala, udinga ukubeka imicabango yakho ngokuhlelekile, futhi unikeze ukuphumula emzimbeni. Ukusabalalisa okunengqondo kwamandla kuzosenza sikwazi ukuthola amandla okukhiqiza amandla. Ukubuyiselwa kwamandla wezocansi kumele kuqale ngokuhlanzwa kwemicabango. Kubandakanya kusukela esidlule. Uma ekhanda lakho isimo sothando lokugcina esibuhlungu sihlala sihlaselwa, angeke sibe nombuzo wokubuyiswa.
Indlela yokuvusa nokugcina amandla ezocansi:
- okungenani kanye ngosuku, vuma uthando lwakho ekucabangeni kwakho esibukweni;
- zama ukwenza lolo hlobo: ukuhamba phansi emgwaqweni, ubheke amehlo akho kubantu abathintekayo bese ubatshela ngokwengqondo amazwi omthando. Ngakho-ke, ukubuyiselwa kwamandla wezocansi nokushintshaniswa kwalo kwenzeka, ngaphezu kwalokho, uvuse amandla enhliziyo yakho;
- zama ukuthola injabulo enkulu kunoma yikuphi ukuzwa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubumnandi beshokoledi obuvuthayo, indawo ebandayo ebhodini, lapho uthinta khona iminwe yakho, ukugcoba okumnandi kombhede ohlambulukile - phakamisa noma yikuphi ukuzwa, uthuthukise;
- khutha kaningi. Uma engekho othandekayo esiseduzane, ngokuqinisekile kuyoba intombazane engakunika imininingwana. Noma abazali, ngokuqinisekile,
bazise lesi senzo esiqotho; - ukuvuswa nokuphelela kwamandla wesifazane ocansini ikakhulukazi kugqugquzelwa ngamasu akhethekile nokuzivocavoca okuhloswe ukuqinisa imisipha ye-pelvis encane, ukuvuselela ukujikeleza kwegazi kwezitho zobulili.
Ukubukeka okujabulisayo, ukubukeka okuvuthayo, ukukhanya okungaqondakali kwesikhumba akusona umphumela wokusebenzisa ikhambi eliyisimangaliso eliyisimungulu. Lo mphumela ungaba nokukhanga okunamandla komunye umuntu. Ngakho ungesabi ubulili bakho, ujabulele!