Ukufisa kuhluke ngezidingo nezidingo ngesilinganiso sabo. Kunzima ukufinyeleleka, ngokuvamile kubonakala kungenangqondo. Zibaluleke kakhulu futhi ngezinye izikhathi azifinyeleleki. Noma uma ubheka kuqala, kungase kubonakale kanjalo. Futhi uma kunjalo, awukwazi ukusho "cha" esifisweni sakho, ngaphandle kokuthola ithemba lokugcwaliseka kwawo kuze kube sekupheleni.
Yini okufanele yenziwe ukuze isifiso sifinyelele?
Sithenga amadokodo ngobumba, sidle umlotha
Ungakwazi ukuhlela ifenisha endlini yakho nezinye izinto zangaphakathi ngokuqinile ngokusho kukaFeng Shui. Sidinga ukufaka izibuko eziningi, silale embhedeni ngqo ngqo entshonalanga, kahle, noma empumalanga. Ungakhohlwa ukuthenga izitembu eziningana ezihlukahlukene: ngenhlanhla, ngemali, ngothando, njll. Shiya emithathu emotweni. Ayikho imoto? - thenga umfanekiso wokubonakala kwemoto, kusasa kuzovela.
Manje susa konke lokhu kuhlubuka. Kuyamangalisa ukuthi bangaki abantu abakholelwa ukuthi ukuvalela indlu yabo ngezinto ezifanayo nokuzibopha ngazo zonke izinhlobo zezinkanuko, ungakwazi ukulala ngokuthula phansi, futhi ingcebo iyowela ezinyaweni zakho. Amandla afanele adingeka ukuthi akhokhiswe ngezinto, kodwa ngokwakho, ingqondo yakho nemicabango yakho. Zilungiselele ngokwakho. Ukucabanga kwethu kudlala indima enkulu ekuphumeleleni komsebenzi. Sebenza ekhanda lakho futhi uyeke ukusebenzisa imali kuzo zonke izinhlobo zezinkinga.
Yiqiniso, kukhona okukhethwa kukho ukulinda unyaka wonke, kanti ngoDisemba 31, phakathi nobusuku phakathi kwamabili, bhala isifiso ephepheni, ulibeke emlilweni, uthele umlotha engilazini ye-champagne uphuze. Kodwa khumbula, kufanele wenze konke kuwashi le-chiming. Uma kungenjalo, konke kuzokuza kuwe ngesitsha sesimbi. Yiba nje ngokucophelela, intombazane eyodwa yayishesha kakhulu ukuthi inganikanga ishidi elifisa ukushisa kuze kube sekugcineni, uliphonse esibukweni futhi lishaya.
Singabantu abadala, kodwa sikholelwa ekungaboni kahle, okwenziwe "kumnandi ngenxa ye". Uma ungenzi lutho, akukho masiko omlingo azosiza. Alas, kodwa kunjalo.
Thatha isenzo
Embuzweni wokuthi yini ongayenza ukuze kugcwaliseke izifiso, ungaphendula lokhu okulandelayo: khipha iphuzu lesishiyagalolunye kusuka kwilafa, thatha isikhundla esiqondile bese uqala ukushintshana ukuze uhambe ngezinyawo zakho. Kodwa ngokungathí sina, kubalulekile ukwenza okuthile. Ukufisa kwabo ngokwabo akuvamile ukutholakala. Ngesikhathi ulinde okuthile, isikhathi siphelile, futhi lokhu kuyisisetshenziswa esibaluleke kakhulu. Yinake futhi ungayichitheli. Qala ngokuhumusha izifiso zakho zibe imigomo. Hlela imigomo bese wenza. Kungcono ukwenza uhlelo nokupenda konke ngokuningiliziwe, okubonisa isikhathi esilinganiselwe salokho okuhlosiwe.
Uma ufuna ukushada, khona-ke yeka ukugcina indlela yokuphila ephelele futhi uzibeke esimweni. Not kuphela izinwele, kodwa futhi imicabango. Thola isikhangiso sakho ukuze ugweme ukuba "njengabo bonke abanye". Yiba umuntu othakazelisayo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuba nesithakazelo kakhulu ezweni elikuzungezile.
Ingabe ufuna imali eningi? Bheka amathuba amasha. Ibhizinisi lendabuko lingasebenzi, lithembekile futhi alizinzile. Thatha, isibonelo, i-MLM-ibhizinisi. Ukumaketha kwenethiwekhi kuyathandwa kakhulu ebhizinisini lebhizinisi. Into esemqoka ukukhetha inkampani efanele bese uhamba ngapha nangapha
Uma ufuna ukuhamba, khona-ke hamba u-hitchhiking. Hlela umzila, uqoqe zonke izinto ezidingekayo, uma kungenzeka, uzitholele umngane wakho. Ukujabulisa okuningi futhi okuphephile. Kuyingozi, Yebo, kodwa emva kwakho konke, izifiso kufanele zifezeke. Lezi zikhangiso zifanelekile kubantu abanobuqili nabanesibindi.
Okucabangayo kuthinta impumelelo yanoma yiliphi ibhizinisi lakho. Imizwelo emihle, ukuzikholelwa ngokwakho kanye namandla akho, ukuthuthukiswa kwezwe langaphakathi nokuzikhukhumeza njalo yisiqinisekiso sokuthi konke kuzovela.