Umyeni uphuza ubhiya nsuku zonke - yini okufanele ayenze?

Ukuphuza ngokweqile, ngaphezu komlutha odumile weziphuzo ezinamandla, nakho kunezihlukahlukene ezinjengokuhlukumeza ubhiya. Into eyaziwa ngaphansi kwegama lotshwala ngokweqile akuyona into eyingozi kakhulu futhi ejwayelekile kakhulu, ikakhulukazi kubantu. Uma umfana noma umyeni ephuza ubhiya nsuku zonke, abesifazane abaningi bayazibuza-ukuthi benzeni?

Ingozi Yokudakwa Kokuphuza Ubisi

Ubhiya, njengezinye iziphuzo ezidakayo, umlutha futhi umlutha. Abaningi kakhulu abesimanje abanamaphesenti abathandanga ukuphuza utshwala ngokuphuza utshwala. Ochwepheshe bezokwelapha bathi ukusetshenziswa kobhiya wemvelo ngamanani amancane kunezinzuzo ezithile zempilo. Kodwa ngokusetshenziswa kwansuku zonke, abantu kungenzeka bathuthukise ama-pathologies amaningi. Uma umyeni evame ukuphuza ubhiya, kufanelekile ukuziqonda ngeziphetho zodokotela mayelana nokuhlukunyezwa kwalesi siphuzo:

• ukwehluleka kokuthembela kungenye yezibonakaliso zayo zangempela;
• isidingo se-opohmelke ekuseni - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokudakwa ngokweqile;
• ukusetshenziswa nsuku zonke - kuthinta kabi ubuchopho futhi kunciphisa inkumbulo;
• amabhodlela amabili kabhiya nsuku zonke kusihlwa - lokhu kuyisinyathelo esiqinisekisayo sokukhuluphala nokutholakala kwesisu esiswini;
• ukusetshenziswa njalo kwebhiya kunciphisa ukukhiqizwa kwamahomoni wesilisa, okubangela ukuba abesifazane besifazane;
• ukuphuza ngokweqile yindlela yokuguquka kwezifo ezinesibindi, izinso, ukuphefumula kanye nezinhliziyo zenhliziyo.

Kuthiwani uma umyeni wami evame ukuphuza ubhiya?

I-Persuasions kanye nezingxabano ezizwakalayo zisiza izingxenye zesilisa, ukuqaphela ingozi nemiphumela emibi kungamisa umuntu futhi kumenze ahlukane nokuthembela . Kodwa yini okufanele uyenze uma umyeni ephuza futhi angeke ayeke, indlela yokuphilisa futhi usize ukuyeka?

Uma umyeni ngokwakhe engaboni inkinga yakhe, umuntu kumele azame umkhombise ukuba aphendule kumuntu wezengqondo. Isazi sengqondo sokusebenza kwengqondo sizosiza indoda ukuba iqaphele ukuthi inkinga yakhe isivele ihambe "nje ukuphuza ubhiya", ikakhulukazi uma imiphumela yalesi simo sokuzilibazisa ishintshe impilo yakho. Ukuze uphulukise ngokuphelele futhi ubuyisele imisebenzi yomzimba kuthathe isikhathi, usizo oluvela kuchwepheshe we-narcology futhi usebenze nesazi sengqondo. Izici eziyinhloko zokwelapha zihlanganisa izinyathelo ezinjalo:

1. Ukuqedwa kokubonakaliswa kokuthembela.
2. Ukususwa kwe-fluid eyengeziwe.
3. Ukubuyiselwa komsebenzi wezitho ezithintekile.
4. Ukuxoshwa kwezitho zangaphakathi.