Ngokuvamile, ukubhubhisa ubudlelwane obungaphumelelanga , senza ukubhuka kohlobo lwezinhlamvu. Eqinisweni, izazi zengqondo ziqaphele ukuthi emindenini ejabule, abalingani bangaba bobabili abafana nabalingiswa abahlukile. Kungani-ke abanye bedala umndeni ojabulayo, kanti abanye abakwazi ukuthola amaphuzu e-intersection iminyaka? Ake sibone ukuthi iziphi iziphetho ezingqondweni zezokwelapha, zihlolisise ubuhlobo emindenini enhle, futhi sizohlaziya izimpawu ezisemqoka zomndeni ophumelelayo.
Izimfihlo zokuphumelela komkhaya ojabulayo
- Isifiso. Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni obujabulisayo yisifiso sokwenza lobu buhlobo bungapheli. Bobabili baqonda futhi bayakwamukela ukuthi ubuhlobo kufanele bukwakhiwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unezinhlamvu ezifanayo noma uhlukile ngokuyisisekelo.
- Emindenini esenza kahle, kukhona ukuhloniphana komunye nomunye kuwo wonke amalungu omndeni. Abangane abadabukisayo nezihlobo zomlingani wakho, uthobela ukukhetha kwakho. Ngakho-ke, wena. Ukugxeka izingane zomphakathi, ubonisa ukungalungi endleleni yakho yokufundisa. Ngempela, laba bangabantwana bakho, futhi nguwe owakhuphula. Ukushintsha, ubonisa ukuthi awukwazi ukunquma ngokukhetha komlingani wakho. Futhi lokhu, futhi, kungukungavuthi okungokomoya kwakho kuphela.
- Ukuzinikela. Emindenini enhle, akukho mbuzo wokuhlukanisa. Ungalokothi. Futhi, ngisho nangaphezulu, akufinyeleli ku-blackmail. Baye ndawonye "ngokudabuka nangokujabula, ekuguleni nasempilo." Lokhu akusho ukuthi abakaze baxabane, bangenzi amaphutha, noma ukujabula kwabo kuhlala kuze kube phakade. Akuyona nje isizathu sokuhlukana, kodwa kuphela kwesinye sezigaba ekukhuleni kobudlelwane.
- Imigomo kanye nezithakazelo ezivamile. Izithakazelo ezivamile ziletha ndawonye, futhi izinhloso zifakazela incazelo nokuqiniseka ebuhlotsheni, kepha imindeni eminingi ayikwazi ngisho neminyaka ukuthi ihamba emigwaqweni ehlukene ngokuphelele nemiphumela ehlukene.
- Isikhathi sokuphumula yisiqinisekiso somndeni ophumelelayo. Wonke umuntu emndenini unelungelo lokuphumula. Isikhathi esinjalo lapho umuntu engakwazi khona ngaphandle kwamalungu omndeni. Yiba iholidi nabangani noma ekamelweni elihlukile.
- Ukungabi nobugovu. Emikhayeni ephumelelayo, wonke umuntu akacabangi nje ngenduduzo yakhe, kodwa ngokujwayelekile. Ngamunye uhlose ukudala izimo ezinhle zomndeni wonke. Kuye kwaziwa isikhathi eside ukuthi uma umndeni ugula wodwa, ekugcineni
kuba kubi kuwo wonke umuntu. - Ukuthethelela. Konke, ngeshwa, bayakwazi ukwenza amaphutha. Emindenini ejabulayo, abalingani bayazi ukuthi bangabuzwa kanjani kuphela ukuthethelelwa, kodwa futhi ukunikeza. Khothelela ukuze ungabuyeli kule mphutha kunoma yikuphi ukungqubuzana.
- Ukungabi nemisebenzi. Kodwa-ke kuyimangalisa kungase kuzwakale, kodwa kule miindeni ayikho ukwahlukana kwemisebenzi. Lokhu kungukuthi, indoda ingasiza umkakhe epulazini ngaphandle kwesicelo sakhe, futhi umfazi angasiza umyeni wakhe ekunakekeleni umndeni, uma enenzuzo yakhe. Kuyinto nje emndenini ojabulayo ukuthi abashadile basebenzisane hhayi ngoba babephoqelekile ukukwenza, kodwa ngoba banesifiso esiqotho sokuhlanganyela ubunzima futhi banakekele.