Ukunganaki kuyisimo esikhethekile somphefumulo lapho ukuqhuma noma ukuhluleka kwemizwelo kunoma yikuphi ukugqugquzela kubonakala, kepha zonke izizindla ezingenakunqunywa zigcinwa. Ukunganakwa kungavela ngenxa yezizathu zangaphandle noma ngenxa yokugula.
Isimo sokunganakwa singenzeka kunoma yisiphi isikhathi, kodwa abantu asebekhulile bahlupheka kaningi. Indlela yokuthuthukiswa kokunganaki yilapho, okweqile kakhulu, izintambo zomgogodla zilahlekelwa yinoma yisiphi isikhathi amandla okubhekana nama-hormone enjabulo, ukuthuthumela, njll. Izizathu zokubonakala kokucindezeleka ziningi.
Ngakho-ke, izifo eziningi ezinamandla ze-somatic, lapho umuntu ezwa khona umkhawulo phakathi kokuphila nokufa, ziholela ekuthuthukiseni ukunganakwa. Isibonelo, umuntu owasinda engozini enobudlova, uyaphela ukunaka konke okukuzungezile, futhi izinsuku ezimbalwa zingase zibe ezinsizeni zomzwelo. Futhi, abantu emva kokuhlaselwa kwenhliziyo abaye babhekana nobuhlungu obukhulu kanye nokuntuleka kwe-oksijeni baqala ukucabanga njalo ngokufa futhi bangabi nentshisekelo kukho konke okwenzekayo nxazonke.
Iziguli ezithokozayo zivame ukungabi nandaba, ngoba zihlakulela ukufa okungenakugwemeka. Noma kunjalo imizwa yabo idonswa yizidakamizwa ezinamandla zengqondo noma izidakamizwa, ezibekwe udokotela ukuze kususwe isifo sobuhlungu.
Kungani ukungabi nandaba kuvela?
Ukunganakwa kungavela ngenxa yokushiyeka okukhulu, cishe ukuwa noma "ukwehluleka." Ngakho-ke ukubangela ukulahlekelwa ngokomzwelo kungase kulahlekelwe yiyo yonke impahla, ushintsho olukhulu ezimweni zokuphila okungezona ezithandayo, ukulahlekelwa okungazelelwe komuntu othandekayo.
Ukunganaki kwabesifazane ngokuvamile kuvame ukulwa nomlando wothando olungenakunqunywa. Njengoba amantombazane ehlukumezeka kakhulu, ukuthandana ngokuvamile kuvame "umphefumulo wonke", futhi lapho bebona ukuthi konke kwenziwe futhi kuchitheka, abantu abaningi "baqondiswa". Futhi ngalesi sikhathi imizwa emibili ekhanyayo idlala ngaphakathi kowesifazane - uthando lomqondo omuhle (ngokuvamile owasungulwa) nokudumazeka okujulile, ngenxa yalokhu "cocktail" ukushisa ngokomzwelo kwenzeka futhi ukunganaki kwenzeka.