Ukuhlukaniswa kwempi

Nsuku zonke kunezingxabano emphakathini. Lezi zinsuku zihluke kakhulu, futhi lokhu kuthinta impilo yezinhlangothi zombili eziphikisanayo nezindawo ezizungezile.

Kodwa izingxabano azange zenze izinguquko ezinhle, ngoba sekuyiminyaka engaphezu kweyishumi kukhona isayensi ye-conflictology. Nguye ohlola isisekelo, ukuhlukaniswa kwempi futhi, ngokungangabazeki, izindlela zokuxazulula izixazululo.

Ukuhlukaniswa kwempi

Cabanga ngezinhlobo eziyinhloko:

1. Ukungqubuzana kweqiniso kuvela ngesikhathi sangempela futhi ngokweqile, ngaphandle kokunyusa, kubonakala ngabathintekayo (isibonelo, umfazi ufuna ukusebenzisa ikamelo mahhala efulethini ngenhloso yokudinga izinwele, futhi umyeni wakhe ufuna ukuvula ihhovisi elizimele kuleli kamelo, lo mbhangqwana ungena esimweni sangempela sempi).
2. Okufanayo Izimo kule mpikiswano kulula kakhulu ukushintsha. Kodwa, ngokuvamile, abaphikisi ababoni ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuqaphela lokhu (ukungavumelani okwenziwe phakathi kwalabo abashadile kuyashintsha ibe yinto engokomfanekiso lapho umbhangqwana ungaboni ukuthi kungenzeka ukukhipha inkinga ngokuthatha elinye igumbi).
3. Ishicilelwe. Isisekelo salo singaba ingxabano efihliwe ngokungazi lutho. Ukungaboni ngaso linye phakathi kwalabo abashadile kuyaba yingxabano eguquguqukayo uma kwenzeka ukuthi abafuni ukuguqula igumbi libe yihhovisi elizimele, futhi lapho kuxabana khona kubonakala sengathi kukhona ukungqubuzana okunye, okungathí sina, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokungazi lutho (icala lomunye wabalingani, uzama "ukucasula" omunye ngezenzo zakhe).
4. Ishiwo ngokungalungile. Kuvela ngenxa yezinkinga ezihunyushwe ngephutha (ingane ihlushwa ngalokho akwenzayo, ngokulandela imiyalelo yabazali bayo).
5. I-Latent. Ukungavumelani okwakungenzeka, kodwa okwenzekanga, ngoba ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, kwakungabonakali yizinhlangothi.
6. Amanga. Izizathu ezingenhloso zokungaqondi kahle azikho. Isimo sokuphikisana sikhona ngenxa yokuqonda okungalungile.

Izingxabano zomphakathi kanye nokuhlelwa kwazo

1. Ukungqubuzana komuntu ngamunye kuphakama ezingeni lomuntu ngamunye, uma kuncike ngokweqile noma ukungezwani.
2. Ukungavumelani kwabantu kubangelwa ukuxhumana kwabantu ngabanye abavela emaqenjini ahlukene, izintshisekelo zenhlalo , imigomo engahambisani.
3. Ingxabano phakathi kwamaqembu. Abameli ngabanye balawo maqembu bathatha iqhaza kule mpikiswano kuphela ngenxa yokuthi bangabanye iqembu.

Ukungqubuzana phakathi kwabantu kanye nokuhlelwa kwabo

1. Emkhakheni wokuphila: umndeni, impahla, ibhizinisi kanye nabanye.
2. Emiphumeleni yokusebenza kanye nemiphumela: eyakhayo futhi eyonakalisayo.
3. Ngokwamaqiniso neqiniso: okuyiqiniso, okungahleliwe, okungamanga, okungekho emthethweni okushiwo, okwenzakalayo, okwedlule.

Ukuhlukaniswa kwempi yomndeni

1. Izimpikiswano ngokuvamile zivela emndenini futhi zihlukanise izinhlobo zazo ezilandelayo.
2. Ukungqubuzana kohlelo lwe-conjugal kungavela ngenxa yokungalingani kobucansini, ukungabi nemimoya emihle (ukungabi nothando, ukuncoma okuvela kumlingani wakho), ukwaneliseka okwedlulele kwezidingo zomuntu siqu (ukukhwabanisa ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo, izidakamizwa, utshwala, njll)
3. Ukungqubuzana phakathi kwezingane nabazali kubonakala ngenxa yezindleko zokukhuliswa kwabantwana, inkinga yobudala emntwaneni.
4. Isizathu sezingxabano zezihlobo kungukungenelela kwabo ngokwegunya.
5. Uphikisana nomqondo ophikisanayo uvela lapho kunomzabalazo wobuholi, lapho omunye wamalungu omndeni engaboni ukubaluleka emndenini.