Ukubeletha usana olusanda kuzalwa

Abazali abajabulayo esikhathini esizayo ngokuvamile bajabule ngokubhekisisa izitolo zezingane, bekhetha i-dowry yengane yabo. Abomama batadisha ulwazi kwi-Intanethi, thintana nabangane abanolwazi oluningi, ngoba akulula kakhulu ukuhamba emkhakheni omkhulu wemikhiqizo yezingane. Isibonelo, ezitolo, ngaphezu kwezingane ezijwayelekile zokuhlala, kungase kube khona ukubeletha kwezinsana. Imiklamo enjalo inebukeka obuhle, imisebenzi ehlukahlukene elula, ithatha isikhala esincane, ngokuqinisekile sibafumbathisa abazali besikhathi esizayo. Kodwa nokho, abaningi bakhathazeka ngokuthi ngabe ingane idinge yini ingane noma ungayenza ngaphandle kwayo. Impendulo yalo mbuzo kufanele inqunywe ngabanye futhi lokhu kubalulekile ukucabangela izici zefenisha yezingane.

Izinhlobo zemibhede yezingane ezisanda kuzalwa

Kunamamodeli amaningana athandwayo atholakala kuwo wonke ama-design,

1. Umswakama osondelene ngezinsana uhlobo lwebhasikidi ezisekelweni zokusekela.
2. Isihlalo sokuqhaqhazelayo-ukukhwabanisa ngesitulo esiqhakazilayo esisekelweni, singaba ngamasondo, kaningi kunamamodeli anjalo kungenzeka ukulawula ukuphakama.
3. Umkhumbi wezingane ezingabhekwe ubonisa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuwufaka embhedeni wabazali, okwenza ubusuku budle ngokulula kakhulu.
4. Isihlalo se-elekthronikhi somntwana sinezimo zanamuhla zobuchwepheshe ezikwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yomama, isibonelo, kukhona ukulawula okude, kungaba khona ukugula okuzenzekelayo ngesikhathi sokukhala, ukudlidliza.
5. Ukubeletha okubelethwe kwezinsana kukuvumela ukuba uthwale ingane yakho nawe eduze kwendlu, futhi uzincoma ukuba ulale ubusuku emkhathini.

Abakhiqizi banikeza ukhetho olubanzi lwezinhlaka, okukuvumela ukuba ukhethe imodeli ezoba ngumsizi othembekile kumama osemncane.

Abazali bavame ukuzibuza ukuthi kungcono ukuthenga umkhumbi wabantwana abasha? Kunezinketho eziningi manje. Kungaba kokubili izitolo zezingane, nezitolo ze-inthanethi ezithengisa ifenisha zezingane nezesekeli.

Indlela yokukhetha ukuzalwa komntwana osanda kuzalwa?

Yebo, ngokubanzi ububanzi bemikhiqizo, kungcono. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ezihlukahlukene kunzima ukuhamba futhi kunqume ukuthi ubheke nini uma ukhetha. Ukuthenga ingane yokuzalwa, kubalulekile ukukhumbula amaphuzu abalulekile alandelayo:

• indaba okuvela kuyo lapho umkhumbi kufanele ube khona futhi ube ephephile;
• zonke izakhi zomkhumbi kufanele zihlanzwe kalula futhi zihlanzwe;
• kufanele akhethe ama-cradles, lapho izinsimbi zenziwe khona zensimbi, njengoba lokhu kuzoqinisekisa amandla esakhiwo;
• iningi lemisebenzi eyengeziwe kulezi zinhlaka kuthinta ukwanda kwexabiso, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, ezinye zazo zinganikezwa nazo. Kufanele kucatshangwe kahle, mhlawumbe kunengqondo ukulalela izinkomba ezishibhile, kodwa ngaphandle kwezici ezithile;
• ubukhulu bokuzalwa komntwana osanda kuzalwa kumele kuvumele ingane ukuba ingavimbeli ukunyakaza, futhi umama ukunikeza isikhala ekunakekeleni kwakhe;
• Indwangu yokulala kufanele yenziwe ngezindwangu zemvelo, kanti i-mattress kumele ikhethwe kunzima;
• qinisekisa ukuthi uhlola umkhumbi wokungabikho kwezingxenye ezibukhali ezingaholela ekulimaleni;
• Akunakwenzeka ukumboza isakhiwo nge-varnish nezinye izinto ngokwakho, njengoba lokhu kungalimaza ingane;
• khetha imodeli engcono enendlela yokuvimbela ukuguquka.

Beka umkhumbi endaweni eseduze eduze kwefasitela ukugwema ama-drafts. Futhi, kuyadingeka ukuhlinzeka izinyathelo zokuphepha ezengeziwe futhi uqaphele ukuthi ngenhla indawo yokulala yanezingane abafaki izithombe noma izincwadi zokufunda izincwadi.

Futhi, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi umbelethi wenzelwe izingane kusukela ekuzalweni kuze kufike ezinyangeni ezingu-6 (iminyaka efunwa ngabakhiqizi). Kodwa-ke, ngokusebenza, ikakhulukazi uma ukhula ingane ekhuthele, kuzodingeka ushintshe umbelethi obhekeni ekuqaleni - inyanga ngo-4.

Ukukhetha phakathi kombhede nomntwana osanda kuzalwa, abazali kufanele baqondiswe imizwa yabo kanye nezidingo zabo.