Ukuphila komama osemncane kugcwele izinkathazo nokukhathazeka - konke kuyinto entsha kuye, konke kuhlotshaniswa nemizwa engadingekile futhi kubangela isiphepho semizwelo. Ukuhamba ngejubane ngesivinini ngenyanga yokuqala yokuphila kwengane futhi umama uqala ukukhathazeka - lapho izingane ziqala ukwenza, ukufundisa ingane lokhu ubuciko?
Isikhathi esilinde isikhathi eside
Lapho ingane iqala ukuguqula - icala liyimfihlo kakhulu. Kodwa ngokuvamile izingane ziqala ukuxhumana nomhlaba wangaphandle ngosizo lwe-agukaniya ngenyanga yesibini yokuphila. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi sezinkulumo zabo, imisindo yevolumu yomsindo ivela, okuyinto abantu abadala abakuchaza njenge-agukanie.
Okokuqala, ingane isebenzisa ikhono elisha lokukhuluma naye, bese lithatha amakhono atholakalayo enkulumweni yokuxoxisana nezinto zokuzwelana - abazali kanye namathoyizi abathandayo. Ngokuvamile inyane ngale ndlela lihlabelela umculo omthandayo.
Indlela yokukhuluma ingane?
Indlela yokufundisa ingane ukuba ikhule? Awekho amakhono akhethekile kulokhu, nje kudingeka ukhulume naye ngangokunokwenzeka, zama ukuhamba namagama noma yisiphi isenzo, noma yikuphi ukuhlukumeza okwenziwe nengane. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi izingane ziyi-peremachivy kakhulu futhi zikopisha ngempumelelo ukukhuluma kwenkulumo yabantu abadala. Yabelana nomntanakho izinjabulo zakho, ungabi ovilaphayo ukuxoxa naye lapho efuna. Khokha kahle izandla zengane - zinamaphuzu ahlobene kakhulu nesikhungo sokukhuluma engqondweni yengane. Ngokubakhuthaza ngezinhlobo ezahlukene zeminwe yemidlalo, imivimbo, izinzwa ezintsha zokuzizwa, nawe uhlakulele inkulumo yengane ngesikhathi esifanayo.
Ngokuvamile imbangela yokukhathazeka yiqiniso lokuthi ngokuphumelelayo nangesikhathi kuqala, ingane ngenxa yezizathu ezithile emva kwesikhathi ayifuni. Ungakhathazeki, cishe, isixazululo ukuthi yisikhathi sokuba ingane yakho ifunde amakhono amasha - ukukhamuluka, ukuklahla nokuhleka. Ngokuvamile ingane ifika kulezi zakhono ezineminyaka engu-4-5, futhi ngaphambi kwalokho isikhathi esithile uthula.
Uma ingane ingathuli nhlobo, okungukuthi, i-agukat isiphelile, futhi imisindo emisha enkulumweni yakhe ayibonakali, bese unakekele imvelo ezungezile. Mhlawumbe, ngale ndlela, ingane igcizelelwe nganoma yiziphi izinguquko. Noma isizathu ukuthi akusihle.
Yiqiniso, zonke izingane zizodwa futhi intuthuko ikhona nhlobo emazingeni ahlukene. Kodwa uma ingane iphikelela ekufuneni, thintana nalesi sigameko nodokotela wezingane. Mhlawumbe ukungafuni ukukhulumisana kungumphumela wezinkinga zezinzwa.