Ibhayisikili ngenye yezindlela ezivame kakhulu futhi ezifinyelelekayo zokuhamba emhlabeni jikelele. Uma uchaza kahle iphupho ngaye, ungathola ukuthi kuzokwenzekani esikhathini esizayo, okudingayo ukwesaba futhi, ngokuphambene nalokho, ujabule. Ukuhlolisisa, hhayi kuphela into esemqoka, kulokhu ibhayisikili, kodwa futhi neminye imininingwane yesakhiwo esibonwayo ibaluleke kakhulu.
Kungani uphupha ukugibela ibhayisikili?
Ezimweni eziningi, iphupho elinjalo libonisa ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uthole ukuvumelana emigameni engokomoya nangokwenyama. Uma kwakudingeka ukhuphuke entabeni, khona-ke ungathembela ekutholeni amathemba okulinga. Enye yezincwadi zephupho kuboniswa ukuthi uma kufanele ugibele ibhayisikili ephusheni, khona-ke lo mphupho uzoba nobuhlobo bobulili, okuyiwona ongabonanga ngokuphelele. Iphupho lapho kwakufanele ugibele ibhayisikili lezingane kuyisibonakaliso esihle, esibonisa ukwamukela isipho esizuzayo kanye nokutholakala kwamathemba akhangayo.
Hamba ephusheni ngebhayisikili, kusho, maduzane uzobhekana nezinkinga eziningi ngenxa yendaba encane. Uma umphuphi ehamba ngebhayisikili eyanikeza imizwa eminingi emihle - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuba khona kokuvumelana kwangaphakathi nokuma okuhle ngokomzimba. Ukuze uphuphe ibhayisikili futhi ugibele kuyo, kusho ukuthi ngalesi sigaba lo mphupho akagculisanga nomsebenzi wakhe futhi wenza imisebenzi yakhe kuphela ngokusebenza ngendlela efanele. Kunconywa ukuba uphumule futhi uhlaziye ngokuthula isimo samanje ukuze udwebe iziphetho ezifanele. Kwezinye izimo, iphupho lapho umuntu ekwazi ukugibela ibhayisikili kusho ukuthi leli phupho lihlehlisela isisombululo sezindaba ezibalulekile. Sizoqonda ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukugibela ibhayisikili bese siwela ephusheni - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuba khona kwetalenta, kodwa ngenxa yokungabi nokuzethemba, akunakwenzeka ukuyiqaphela. Isikhathi
Umbono ebusuku, lapho kwakudingeka ngigibele ibhayisikili ngokushesha, kubonisa ukusheshisa empilweni kanye nesifiso sokwenza konke ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. USonnik uxwayisa ukuthi lokhu kungabangela izinkinga eziningi nabantu abaseduze.
Kungani uphupha ukuhamba ngezinyawo?
Iphupho elinjalo liwuphawu olubi, oluthembisa izinkinga nezinhlobo ezahlukene zokuhluleka. Noma kunjalo iphupho elinjalo lingase lixwayise ngokuvela kwezinkinga ngezempilo. Ukuze abesifazane behle ngebhayisikili ephusheni, kusho ukuthi endaweni yomphakathi kufanelekile ukuziphatha ngokuzithoba, ngoba kukhona ingozi yezinkinga ezinkulu.