Kunzima ukuhlangana nendoda engakaze ibe nesithakazelo kulokho iphupho ayibona ebusuku. Ngokuvamile isakhiwo sihlasela ngokungajwayelekile, kodwa ezimweni eziningi ephusheni umuntu ubona izinto ezijwayelekile. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi leli phupho lisho ukuthini, omunye kufanele akhumbule eminye imininingwane yesakhiwo.
Kungani ukukhala ezindebeni kuphupha?
Umbono webusuku wokubambisana no-boss kuwuphawu lwezingxabano ezinkulu ezingathinta umsebenzi. Uma udinga ukumanga isihlobo, khona-ke kufanele usalindela ukuvikelwa nalomuntu. Ukubuka ukuthi abantu ababili abangajwayelekile bangabanga kanjani, kusho, empilweni ongayethemba enhlanhleni. Umhumushi wephupho, lapho inkulumo ethi "isiFulentshi" ishaya emilonyeni yamaphupho, ihunyushwa njengokubonakala kwesifo esizodlula ngokushesha. Kubantu abanobudlelwane indaba enjalo ithembisa ukuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside. Ubusiso obusukayo kusho ukuthi umphuphi uyaneliseka ngothando lwakhe lokunqoba.
Kungani owesifazane ephupha ngokumanga umuntu emlonyeni?
Ukumanga nomyeni wakhe kuyisibonakaliso esihle, esibonisa ukuqala kabusha kwenjabulo nokuzwana ebuhlotsheni . Lapho ebona ukuthi omunye owesifazane umanga kanjani umyeni wakhe, khona-ke kukhona ingozi yokulahlekelwa inhlonipho yakhe. Umbono wasembusweni, lapho intombazane yayimanga khona nomuntu ongamazi, ubonisa ukuntuleka kokuxhumana nobulili obuhlukile kanye nomzwelo wesizungu. Ukumangala nomngane uthembisa ukuhlambalaza nokuhlukana, okuzokwenzeka ngenxa yokungaqondi kahle. Uma udinga ukumanga isoka lesikhathi esidlule, khona-ke umcimbi ongalindelekile uzokwenzeka, okuzobangela ukumangala okukhulu. Noma kunjalo kungabonisa ukungapheleli kobudlelwane.
Ukumanga komuntu ofileyo kuphupha kanjani ezindebeni?
Uma umphuphi embanga umuntu ofile - lokhu kuyisibindi sokuqala kokugula ngisho nokufa komuntu othandekayo. Umbono ebusuku, lapho oshonile ewanga khona ezindebeni, ubikezela impumelelo emisebenzini nasemabhizinisini, okuzovula amathuba amasha.