Umsebenzi nomsebenzi wendlu yansuku zonke ususa amandla amaningi kubantu nabesifazane. Ngemuva kweminyaka eminingana yokuphila okuhlangene, imibhangqwana engaphezu kuka-80% isho ukuthi ubudlelwane babo bube buhlaza futhi bukhululekile. Maye, lokhu kusebenza nakwezocansi. Njengoba ubulili budlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni obuphakathi kobulili obuhlukile, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi kucacile, hhayi ukuxolisa. Izazi zengqondo zithi ubulili obugcwele futhi obuvamile benza ukuxhumana phakathi kobambisene kunamandla, futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, kusiza ekunciphiseni ukucindezeleka nokuphazamiseka kwemizwa.
Uma ubudlelwano bobulili nomlingani beyeke ukuletha injabulo yangaphambili, kuyadingeka ukuba wenze okuthile. Kunezindlela eziningi zokwenza indlela yokwehlukanisa impilo yezocansi. Okokuqala, owesifazane kufanele anake indlela yakhe yokuphila. Okokuqala, udinga ukuqapha ukubukeka kwakho. Ukuze isithakazelo somlingani singapheli, kufanele ugqoke izingubo zangaphansi ze-sexy, izithende eziphakeme, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi isimo sezinwele, izipikili nesikhumba sihle. Kubalulekile ukunikeza isikhathi sokuziqasha kanye nomzimba wakho - ukugibela e-sauna, echibini lokubhukuda, i-hydromassage nobuhle be-salon kuphakamisa ukuzethemba nokwenza ube nomuhle.
Okwesibili, ukuba nobuhlobo bobulili bebukhali, udinga ukufuna ucansi. Abaningi besifazane bakhathele kakhulu impilo yomndeni kanye nokuhlukunyezwa okuhlukahlukene, okungeyona into ekwenzeni ukuvuswa kwesifiso sobulili. Noma kunjalo, udinga ukuhlanganisa ukuthanda ubuhlobo. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kufanele ucabange ngocansi emaphakathini emsebenzini, ukupheqa ekhanda lakho imizwa yakho eyimfihlakalo eyimfihlo kakhulu. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - uzizwe unesidingo.
Okwesithathu, shintsha isithombe sakho njalo. Amadoda asheshe akhathele ngeso lengqondo. Futhi owesifazane ongenakuqaphelwa futhi oguqukayo njalo ubangela izifiso.
Sinikeza amaqhinga angu-10 azosiza ukuhlukanisa ubudlelwano bobulili:
- Yibani abakhuthele. Bonisa isithakazelo sobulili kumlingani wakho njalo ngangokunokwenzeka futhi umcasule ebuhlotsheni bobulili.
- Thola ukucabanga kwakhe ngokobulili nezifiso, futhi uyazibona.
- Mema umlingani uzame imidlalo yezocansi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, sebenzisa izingubo ezihlukahlukene zokuzikhandla nezesekeli ezivela ezitolo zezimpahla eziseduze.
- Ukuhlolwa. Ungesabi ukuzama izinto ezintsha ngocansi. Yenza njengo-initiator futhi umangaze umlingani wakho.
- Yiba nobulili ezindaweni ezingalindelekile nezingavamile - emotweni, epaki, ehhovisi nakwezinye izindawo ezizenzekelayo.
- Yenza ucansi ngomlomo. Amadoda amaningi ahlukumeza.
- Yenza ubusuku bokuthandana. Isidlo esilula kanye nengilazi yewayini esimweni sothando sisiza ukuphumula emva komsebenzi wosuku.
- Unganqikazi ukubuka ama-movie we-porn nomngane wakho. Ngemuva kokubuka, zama ukukhumbula izikhathi ezikhunjulwayo nezijabulisayo.
- Flirt nomlingani wakho. Ngisho noma uhlala ndawonye iminyaka eminingi, ukudlala ngothando akufanele kunganakwa. Zama umlingani wakho, ugqoke ngokungcolile ngaye futhi udlala ngothando.
- Phenduka ngezikhathi ezithile komunye nomunye. Izinsuku ezimbalwa ezichithwa ngenkampani yamantombazane, zikuvumela ukuthi uphazamise izinkinga zomndeni bese ubheka kabusha umlingani wakho.
Izinyunyana zomndeni, lapho abalingani bakhetha khona ukuhluka kobulili, bazama njalo futhi bazame ukujabulisa omunye nomunye ngazo zonke izindlela, bahluke ngamandla. Ngisho nangemva kweminyaka engu-20 yomshado, ubudlelwane bobulili bungenza injabulo nenjabulo enkulu.