Umbuzo wokuthi ubulili buwusizo, isayensi nenkolo kunqunywa ngokuhlukile. Inkolo iyamukela kuphela ucansi ngokukhuliswa komndeni, kanti odokotela bathi kunezinzuzo ezithile zezempilo. Sizocabangela izici ezihlukene zalolu daba.
Ingabe kuyasiza ukuba ucansi?
Ake sicabangele ukuthi yiziphi izinzuzo zobulili eziletha emzimbeni womuntu, futhi kungani odokotela bakholelwa ukuthi okungenani ngezikhathi ezithile, kodwa kufanele kube sempilo yethu:
- Ubulili buyanciphisa izinga lokucindezeleka, ngoba kuyisimo esinamandla sengqondo. Kukholelwa ukuthi kokubili owesifazane nendoda engazange abe nobulili isikhathi eside baba nobudlova, bebuhlungu futhi beyinkimbinkimbi ekukhulumisaneni.
- Ubulili buletha injabulo, ngoba ngesikhathi sokuxhumana futhi ekugcineni umzimba uveza ama-hormone enjabulo - i-endorphins. Banikeza umuntu umuzwa wokuthakazelisa nokuthakazelisa.
- Embuzweni wokuthi ubulili besilisa buwusizo yini, abanye odokotela bathi bangakwazi ukungena esikhundleni sokuzivocavoca ekuseni, ngoba ohlangothini olusebenzayo kufanele benze umzamo omkhulu futhi basebenzise imisipha ehlukene.
- Abanye odokotela bakholelwa ukuthi ubulili obuvamile bungakhubazeka. Noma kunjalo, le datha ayitholakali okwamanje.
- Kukholelwa ukuthi ubulili bungakwazi ukulwa nokulala, ngoba ngenxa yokuthi izinga lokucindezeleka linciphile, kulula ukuba umuntu aphumule futhi ahambe elele.
- Kuwesifazane obhekene nezinkinga zokungena esikhathini, ubulili obuvamile ngenye yezindlela ezingcono zokujwayelekile. Kodwa-ke, kwezinye izimo kuphela izidakamizwa ze-hormonal isenzo.
- Amadoda athambekele ekuqongeleleni ukucindezeleka , futhi kuphela labo abenza ucansi, okungenani kanye ngesonto, bangaqiniseka ukuthi abengekho engozini yokuhlaselwa yinhliziyo ngenxa yokweqisa kwamanzi.
- Embuzweni wokuthi ubulili buwusizo kwabesifazane, kufanelekile ukucabangela iqiniso lokuthi ngenxa yezocansi, i-estrogen ishicilelwa ngokugcwele, ngenxa yokuthi isikhumba siba bushelelezi futhi izinwele zikhanya.
Mayelana nombuzo wokuthi ubulili buwusizo ngaphandle kwe-orgasm, imibono yabachwepheshe ihlukile.
Ingabe kuyasiza ukuba nobulili njalo?
Izifundo zenziwa futhi zatholakala ukuthi ucansi lusetshenziswa kuphela lapho lifunwa, ngakho umuntu ngamunye ubeka imvamisa yakhe. Uma umlingani noma umlingani wakho ekuqinisekisile ukuba uhlale ocansini, kodwa awufuni, ngeke kube nzuzo kuyo, okuphambene nalokho. Kodwa uma ungumuntu othukuthele, oxhumana nabo izikhathi eziningana ngesonto ngeke bakulimaze, ikakhulukazi uma kungesona isenzakalo esihlala njalo, kodwa isikhathi esisodwa.