Izingane zithanda ukulingisa abantu abadala, futhi lokhu kuyisifiso sabo sokuthunyelwa ngesikhathi esifanele. Kubalulekile ukubeka ingane kusukela esencane ukuya etafuleni elifanayo nawo wonke amalungu omndeni. Ukubheka abantu abadala, izinyane lizama ukuphinda zonke izenzo, ngaleyo ndlela, ziqala ukufunda ukuzidla zodwa.
Ukufundisa ingane ukuba idle eyedwa - akufanele kube nokukhathazeka nabazali. Ingane ngokwayo kufanele ithande inqubo yokuzidla yona. Into esemqoka ukubekezela nokukhumbula imithetho elula:
- hhayi ukuphoqa ingane ukuba idle;
- ungasheshi;
- ukudumisa nokukhuthaza;
- Usizo lokufunda ukuthi ungabamba kanjani isipuni.
Isikhathi lapho kufanelekile ukuqala ukufundisa ingane ngokuzimela kuxhomeke ekuziphatheni kwayo kanye nezinga lokuthuthukiswa. I-kid ngokwakhe ibonisa isithakazelo ku-spoon kusuka ezinyangeni ezingu-7-8, futhi kudingeka usebenzise umzuzu ukuyikhohlisa futhi ukhuthaze isithakazelo ukufunda ukuzidla. Uma ungesabi izingubo ezinamathengi nokuhlanza njalo ekhishini, emva kweminyaka eyi-1.5-2 ingane izokwazi ukwenza lo mkhono.
Indlela yokufundisa ingane ukuba idle ngokuzimela?
Imithetho eyisisekelo:
- Nika umntwana ukuba adle eyedwa lapho elambile ngempela. Lapho ingane ifuna ukudla, ayikho isimo sengqondo se-vagaries kanye nokuxubha.
- Ungavumeli ingane idlale ukudla. Lapho umntwana enelisekile, uqala ukugcoba ukudla, ukuzwa nokuguqa iminwe yakhe, uphonsa. Kulesi simo, kungcono ukuthi uthathe ipuleti kanye ne-spoon ngokushesha, ukuze ingane iqonde umehluko phakathi kokudlala nokudla.
- Ungamphoqeleli ukuthi ingane igcine isinkwa ngakwesobunxele sayo, futhi isipuni ngakwesokudla. Kuze kube neminyaka emithathu abantwana bazama ukwenza konke ngezandla zabo zangakwesokunxele nangesobunxele. Futhi mhlawumbe ingane yakho isesandleni sokhohlo, khona-ke funda ukuze ugcine i-spoon esandleni sakho sokunene, okungekho okudingayo.
- Ekuqaleni kwemfundo yengane, kungcono ukunikeza izitsha zakhe ezizithandayo nokuzihlobisa kahle. Lokhu kuzobangela isithakazelo esiningi nokudla, futhi ingane izofunda kalula ukudla ngokuzimela.
- Ngesikhathi ingane iqala ukudla kuphela, abadala kudingeka babe nesineke futhi bangabi nokwesaba. Ukuhlanzeka okuhle ekhishini kuyodingeka kukhohliwe ngalesi sikhathi. Asikho isidingo sokusula zonke izinhlanzi ezichithekile futhi uthathe imvuthu ewile ngenkathi udla umntwana futhi umphazamise. Ukuhlanza itafula kungcono ukukwenza kanye nengane kamuva, ngakho uzojwayela ukuhlanzeka nokuchithwa.
Ngokwenza njalo, umama ngamunye uzodinga ukubekezela nokufinyelela kwakhe kwengane, ngaphambi kokuba afunde ukudla nokuziphatha kahle etafuleni.