Izinga lozwela lisho ukudalulwa kwezindinganiso zokuziphatha zomuntu, okudingekayo ukuziqhenya komuntu ngamunye. Uzwela oluphakeme lusiza ukukhula komuntu siqu, futhi lube yinye yezibonakaliso zayo eziyinhloko. Uzwela ngobuntu luyadingeka ukuze umuntu aphile ngokuvumelana nomhlaba wabanye abantu futhi abe nomphakathi.
Ukuxilongwa kwezinga lokuzwelana kuhlolwe kusetshenziswa i-questionnaire ekhethekile ka-N. Epstein no-A. Mehrabien. Leli phepha lemibuzo yokuxilongwa kozwela linezitatimende ezingu-36.
Ukufingqa ukuhlolwa
- Unamaphuzu angu-82 kuya kwangu-90 . Inombolo enjalo ibonisa izinga eliphezulu kakhulu lozwela. Uhlala usabela esimweni sangaphakathi se-interlocutor, uyakwazi ukuzwelana nokukhumbula imizwa yakhe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngokuqinisekile, ubhekene nezinkinga ezithile ngenxa yokuthi abantu abakuzungezile bavame ukukusebenzisa njenge "vest", bephonsa kuwe izinkinga zabo nemizwelo emibi. Ungathemba abantu banoma yisiphi isikhathi nobudala bezenhlalakahle. Ukuzizwa kwakho ngokweqile kungabangela izinkinga ezingadingekile, uvame ukudinga ukwesekwa kokuziphatha kubantu abaseduze. Qaphela futhi unakekele ukuthula kwengqondo yakho.
- Uma amaphuzu akho ngamaphuzu angu- 63 kuya kwangu-81 , khona-ke unesilinganiso esiphakeme sozwela. Uhlale ukhathazeka ngabanye, zama ukuxazulula izinkinga zabo, unomusa kakhulu futhi unomusa futhi ungaxolela okuningi. Unesithakazelo kubantu, abantu babo. Ungumuntu okhulumisana kahle nomuntu onomusa. Uqotho kakhulu, zama njalo ukudala ibhalansi nokuzwana phakathi kwabanye. Isimo esifanele sokugxekwa yisimfanelo esingavamile kakhulu onakho. Ukusebenza eqenjini kukulethela injabulo enkulu kunokusebenza yedwa. Njengomthetho, uthemba intuition nemizwelo, kunesizathu. Udinga ukuvunyelwa kwezenzo zakho ngabantu abakuzungezile.
- Uma uthola amaphuzu angu- 37 kuya kwangu-62 , lokhu kubonisa izinga elivamile lozwela. Ivela kubantu abaningi. Awunandaba, kepha futhi awuzweli ngokukhethekile. Ngokuvamile bahlulele abantu ngezenzo zabo. Lokhu kungokomfanekiso wakho omkhulu kunomuntu siqu.
- Izikolo zakho kusuka ku-12 kuya ku-36 ? Lokhu kusho ukuthi unesilinganiso esiphansi sozwela. Akulula ukuthi uthole ukuthintana nabanye, ungakhululekile kunkampani engajwayelekile noma enkulu. Ngokungavumelani ukusabela ekuboniseni ngokweqile kwemizwelo kwabanye, kubonakala kuwe kungenangqondo.
- Uma imiphumela yokuhlola ibonise amaphuzu angaphansi kwangu-11 - izinga lakho lozwela liphansi kakhulu. Uhlala kude nabasebenza nabo nezihlobo. Akulula ukuthi uqale ingxoxo wena ngokwakho, ikakhulukazi kuxoxisana nezingane noma abantu abadala.