Ukuba umholi kuyathakazelisa, kodwa akulula, ngoba kunzima ukuthola umgudu ophakathi phakathi komlingiswa obuthakathaka namandla angaphezu kwesitayela sobuholi. Umsebenzi wakho ngokuqondile uxhomeke kwabangaphansi kwakho, futhi ukuze wenze umsebenzi wonke uphumelele (onomthwalo wemfanelo), udinga ukuthola amandla kubantu osebenza nabo. Indlela yokuwina inhlonipho yabangaphansi, sizoxoxa kule ngxenye.
Ukuze uthole udumo eqenjini lakho, khumbula lokhu okulandelayo:
- Qaphela ukuqondiswa emsebenzini. Abangaphansi akufanele babe izitha noma abangane bakho. Ngisho noma ungabangane abakhulu ngaphandle kwehhovisi, akufanele ubonise ubuhlobo emsebenzini. Ungabonisi ulwazi, futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, ungazivumeli wena.
- Sebenzisa ulwazi ngokusebenza. Kumelwe ube nekhono hhayi embonini yakho yobuchwepheshe kuphela, kodwa futhi ekusebenzeni nabangaphansi ukuze ulungiselele izimo ezihlukene. Umqashi ohlakaniphile kumelwe abe, okokuqala, umuntu ohlakaniphile.
- Kumele uqonde ngokuphelele umsebenzi inhlangano yakho eyenzayo. Cha, awudingi ukwenza imisebenzi yabangaphansi, kodwa udinga ukuqaphela ukuze ulawule. Ngakho ngeke uzivumele ukukhohliswa - amahlaya anjalo athandwa ikakhulukazi nabasebenzi "basekudala" phezu kobuholi abasha.
- Esikhundleni sobuholi bakho, okokuqala, uthembele emigomweni yenkampani, bese uyedwa, bese ubheke ngezinhloso zabangaphansi kwakho. Ungakubekezeli ukungafezeki kwemisebenzi yomsebenzi, noma ngabe impilo iyindoda enhle. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungabonisi amandla amaningi, dumisani abaphathi bakho uma befanelwe. Uma ubuza, kungani, ngoba ukusebenza kahle kwemisebenzi yakho yomholo kuvamile? Ngikholelwa, indumiso iyamnandi kubo bonke abantu, ngeke ulahlekelwe yikho, kodwa umuntu uzomuzwa njengenani lakhe kule ndawo.
- Gcina isu engqondweni. Cabanga ngaphesheya kwamanje - yini ezokwenzeka kusasa, ngenyanga, ngonyaka? Shintshela umbono wesikhathi esifushane ube nombono wesikhathi eside ukuze ucabange ukuthi umphumela ovela ezenzweni zamanje ozothola ngesikhathi esithile.
- Ungacindezeli abantu abangaphansi kwakho. Kungenzeka futhi kuyadingeka ukuveza ukugxeka okwakhiwayo, kodwa kuphela futhi ubuso nobuso. Uma wenza iphutha, ngenxa yokuthi leli qembu lonke lahlupheka, liyakwamukela ngaphambi kokusebenza nabo. Ukuthembeka kudinga inhlonipho.
- Thatha isinyathelo. Vikela izinqumo zakho ngezimpikiswano ezinamandla ezokugcina. Uma uqonda okungalungile kwakho-uyayivuma, akuyona into ehlazozayo.
- Funda izifundo zakho. Lolu lwazi luzokusiza ukuthi uthole "izinkinobho" ezikhuthaza abantu ukuthi basebenze. Imiholo kanye namabhonasi akusona kuphela okugqugquzela umuntu ukuba asebenze, kodwa, ungazami ukubajabulisa - akungabazeki ukuthi umuntu ojwayele ukuhlunga uzodingeka ahlonishwe.
- Sebenzisa ulimi olucacile. Zama ukuziveza ukuze ungaqondi imiyalo yakho noma ukuyihumusha ngokungalungile akunakwenzeka.
Izwi lakho kufanele libe nokuzola. Ungasebenzisi amagama okunciphisa "thina, ngombono wami, awukwazanga", njll. izimpendulo ezicacile nemibuzo ecacile kuyisihluthulelo sokuqonda phakathi kosizi nabangaphansi kwakhe. - Abangaphansi kwakho kufanele baziphendule kuwe. Kodwa uma uhlulekile icala futhi uphoqeleka ukuba uphendule kubaphathi bakho, zibophezele wena. Emva kwalokho, ungakwazi ukusola abantu bakho, kepha ubhekisela emaphutha abo ngaphambi kokuba ubuholi bakho bube ukuphakama kokungenzi lutho. Abathandekayo bayobazisa ngempela lokhu kuvikelwa futhi bazofika kuwe ngenhlonipho.