Imicabango ngemiphumela yesikhathi esizayo yokukhulelwa, ukuzuza isisindo, ukudla ngokweqile, ekugcineni, mayelana nempilo yengane, kuthathwa ngemuva, ngoba into eyinhloko ekhathazayo kokubili owesifazane osebenzayo kanye nobaba ozayo womndeni kungukulala komntwana. Kubonakala sengathi yiziphi izinkinga - yenza ama-ultrasound futhi ungabaza ukuphela. Kodwa, okokuqala, ngisho ne-ultrasound ayinikezi isiqinisekiso esiyikhulu samaphesenti, futhi ukungabaza, okungahambisani nezinqubo zobuchwepheshe, kuyaqhubeka nokuhlupha abazali abazayo, futhi okwesibili, kunezikhukhula lapho odokotela bengasincoma khona i-ultrasound ngezizathu zokuphepha. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunamabhangqwana abenqaba ukuxilongwa kwe-ultrasound kusukela kumgomo, njengokungathi bazibonakalisa bona kanye nezwe ukuthi abakhathaleli ukuthi bathande bani.
Siyaqiniseka ukuthi uma isimangaliso sakho sizalwa, uzoyithanda, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili, futhi ukhohlwe ngokuthandwa kocansi. Kodwa ngenkathi uhlushwa, sifuna ukukusiza, ukunquma ngezibonakaliso zomfana oyilindele, noma intombazane.
Izinkomba ezingaphandle
Ake siqale ngesisu. Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ukuma kwesisu kungabonisa umfana noma intombazane. Uma unesibindi ezinkalweni, kanti isisindo sisakazeka - linda intombazane, uma ngemuva kwakho ukukhulelwa kwakho kungabonakali, isisu sinamandla kuphela - uzoba nomfana.
Ukubonakala kowesifazane okhulelwe sekuyisikhathi eside esebenza njengesibonakaliso esihle kakhulu sokuzalwa komfana noma intombazane. Mayelana nentombazane izokutshela ukuwohloka kwangaphandle - izindawo ezinemibala, i-pallor, izici ezifakiwe. Bathi intombazane iba ubuhle kunina. Kulo mfana owesifazane ophikisanayo uba mnandi kakhulu, ama-blooms, kanye neziphambeko azithunjwa ekuqaleni. Isici sesici salo mfana kuyinto impumulo kancane kancane.
Isisu sishukumisela kanjani?
Ngokwezibonakaliso ezithandwayo mayelana nokuzalwa komfana noma intombazane, bazotshela ukuthi ingane iyathinta kanjani. Uma ingane ishaya indawo yesibindi - thenga umgibeli wesigqilakazi, uma amahlumela ewela phansi, ungene endaweni yesikhumba - uzoba nomfana.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, isisu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, umfana uhamba kahle, intombazane - ishiywe.
Ukukhulelwa kanye nobulili
Ngaphezu kwalokho, isikhathi sokukhulelwa kwengane sizobuye sitshele ngensimu yengane. Ukuzalwa komfana noma intombazane kungathathwa ngokuvuthwa - uma ingane ikhulelwe ngosuku lokuvuthwa, linda umfana uma izinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuvuthwa - kuzoba nentombazane.
Futhi mayelana nensimu ithi "amandla angamadoda" kababa - uma owesifazane elele embhedeni, kuyoba nentombazane uma le ndoda isengumfana.
Amanothi kubaba
Kubonakala sengathi, uhlobo luni lwesimo sengqondo ezibonisweni ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kanye nencazelo yomfana noma intombazane inomzali. Nokho, akuyona ukuhlakanipha kwabantu okukhuluma lapha, kodwa izibalo! Ngokwezibalo, amadoda angama-bald angama-1.5 ngaphezulu amathuba okuba ngabababa babafana kunamadoda anezimila emakhanda abo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma umuntu ehlushwa owesifazane okhulelwe, ulinde indodana. Futhi kukhona isibonakaliso sencazelo yesondo ngokusho kwezingubo zikababa: uma indoda ikhetha izingubo zangaphansi, uzoba nomfana. Uma mahhala - intombazane.
Isici ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa
Yiqiniso, ukuziphatha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuncike ekutheni imvelo, imvelo, imfundo yabesifazane. Kodwa, njengoba ababelethisi bezimisele ngokuziphatha komama ekubelethweni, akukho lutho oluzosivimbela ukuba senze okufanayo.
Ngakho-ke, isimo sengqondo esidabukisayo, ukuqonda kuyakhuluma ngendodakazi yesikhathi esizayo, isimo esihle sempilo nokukhulelwa okulula - mayelana nendodana. Uma owesifazane ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa efihla isikhundla sakhe - uzoba nendodakazi, uma isisu esiphelele siveza, kuyoba khona umfana.
Futhi ukucasuka okuvela ekubeni khona kwamadoda amaningi kukhuluma futhi ngendodakazi.
Izintandokazi ze-Gastronomic
Kunesibonakaliso esinjalo sokuthi labo besifazane, abakhulelwe ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa bephuza amahle kakhulu balindele amantombazane. Futhi uma ukukhulelwa kwenza ukunambitheka kwakho kube "utshwala" - uthandana nosawoti, ukubhema, ukucola, ungacabangi kusuka ku-roach ne-marmalade (ngisho nangaphandle kwe-marmalade), ukulinda omunye umuntu endlini.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, labo abalindela abafana banesifo esinobuthi kunoketshezi, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, isifiso siphezulu. Lesi yisitatimende esikwanele, ngoba ngokomzimba, kunzima owesifazane ukuba athathe umfana.