Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi ukugubha uNyaka Omusha kuvame ukuqhutshwa ezinkampanini ezinomsindo zezihlobo noma abangane, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ufuna ukuchitha isikhathi nomuntu wakho othandekayo, yenza lobu busuku nje kuphela futhi impi ye-chimes ilalele ndawonye, kude nomnandi wonke umuntu.
Indlela yokwenza umkhosi ube mnandi, ungakhohlwa futhi unentshisekelo kabili? Okokuqala, unqume ukuthi yini oyilindele kusukela kuNyaka KaNcibijane? Ingabe kuyoba isidlo sokuthula ngokubukela izinhlelo zonyaka omusha ku-TV noma ubusuku obuthandekayo besithando, olufakwe ngama-tangerines ne-champagne? Kusihlwa enkampanini yehhotela elilodwa lomuzi noma ukuphuma kwothando ngendalo?
Kuphi ukuhlangabezana noNyaka Omusha ndawonye?
Ngenxa yokuthi lo mkhosi uhilela ukulungiselela okuthile, kuyadingeka kuqala ukuba unqume ukuthi uzogubha unyaka omusha ndawonye. Uma ukhetha inombolo yehhotela kulo mkhosi, amalungiselelo ayobe esincane, futhi uma uhlela ukuya emvelweni, izinkinga ezidingeke zixazululwe zizovela okuningi. Inketho evame kakhulu ukuhlangabezana noNyaka Omusha ekhaya, lapho umkhathi ukhululekile khona-ke ukhululekile, futhi ukuhlobisa igumbi ngokuhambisana nomcabango wakho kuzokwenza isimo sengqondo esidingekayo.
Unyaka Omusha Wothando
Umkhathi wokugubha nge-touch of romance kungadalwa usebenzisa amakhandlela atholakalayo kuhlanganiswe nezigqoko ezikhanyayo emthini wesiKhisimusi. Ukukhanya okuthakazelisayo nezibani eziningi ezincane kuzonikeza kusihlwa imfihlakalo ethile, nokudla okulula okulula etafuleni, ama-saladi okuhlotshisiwe kanye nenyama noma inhlanzi ephekwe ngokusho kwe-recipe entsha kuyoba yindlela enhle kakhulu yokukhetha i-candlelight dinner yothando.
Ngaphambi kwesikhathi, cabanga ngesembatho esifanelekayo, ungahlali ku-jeans etafuleni lokugubha kanye nezinye izingubo zangaphandle ezingavumelekile. Uma, ngokusho komqondo wakho, kusihlwa kuzoba nokushisa okushisayo embhedeni, khona-ke kufanele ukhethe izingubo zangaphansi zangaphansi, uvumelane nesenzakalo kanye namasheya ngokuhambisana nezicathulo eziphezulu.
Unyaka omusha nabathandekayo bakho bangaba umcimbi wangempela, ozowukhumbula kuze kube sebusika ozayo, ngakho-ke zama ukuhlobisa igumbi lezinhlobonhlobo zemihlobiso yonyaka omusha, unakekele ukutholakala kwezitsha ezinhle nokusika, izibuko ezifanelekile ze-champagne. Ukuze uthole imenyu kusihlwa, ungakhethi ukudla okunzima, ngaphandle kwalokho kukhona ingozi ukuthi emva kokudla okunamandla ngeke usafuna ukudansa noma wenze uthando. Kungcono ukwenza imenyu ngendlela yokuthi izitsha zingavamile, kodwa zilula, zingenzi izinkinga ekugayeni kwakho.
Ungakhohlwa ngesipho. Yiqiniso, abantu abadala baye bazi isikhathi eside ukuthi iSanta Claus izofakazela ukuhlanganiswa kwakho kuNyaka KaNcibijane, kepha isenzo esihle sokuthola izimangazane ngaphansi kwesihlahla sekuyisikhathi eside sibe yisimiso esibophezela ku-Eva Wonyaka Omusha noma ekuseni ngosuku lokuqala lonyaka ozayo.
Ukuhlangana Nonyaka Omusha nensizwa, indlela eyodwa noma enye kufanele icabange ukuthi amathuba okuthi kusihlwa kuzophela ekamelweni,
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha kuphi, khumbula ukuthi uNyaka Omusha onjalo kanye nomyeni wakhe ufanelekile ngokuphelele, engeza umbala empilweni yakho yansuku zonke futhi ube yinkumbulo enhle, futhi mhlawumbe isiko esihle sonyaka. Ukuhambisa impilo kulobu busuku bese udala isimo esikhethekile, wena ngokwakho uzomuzwa ukuthi leli holide lizogcwaliswa kanjani nomzwelo wosuku lokuqala kanye nobuhle bokuthandana kwakho.