Ingane ngayinye ingomuntu ngamunye kokubili idatha yangaphandle kanye nobunikazi. Ezinye izingane zilele cishe lonke usuku lwenyanga yokuqala ngemva kokuzalwa, zivuka ukuze zidle, kanti ezinye zihlala ziphapheme isikhathi eside. Ngakho kuyini evamile, futhi kubalulekile ukuvusa ingane ngqo? Ubude bokulala buxhomeke ekuziphatheni komntwana. Mayelana nokuthi ingane esanda kuzalwa idinga ukulala enyangeni eyi-1, sizocabangela esihlokweni sethu.
Bangaki abantwana abasanda kuzalwa babuthongo ngosuku?
Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa azikwazi ukuqwashisa imini nobusuku, ngakho ulala futhi uphapheme ngendlela ayifunayo. Kungasho ngokungaqondile ukuthi ingane encane, lapho ilala khona, futhi ngenyanga ngayinye isikhathi sokuvuka komntwana sikhula kancane kancane.
Kakade unyaka ingane ilele ntambama 1 noma izikhathi ezimbili, futhi ebusuku angeke ivuke ekudleni noma yini. Ukuphazamiseka kokulala kungabonisa noma yiziphi izinkinga, kaningi ngokudla.
Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, uma umntwana engagcwele ubisi lomama, ngeke alele isikhathi eside, futhi ngokuqondile emizuzu engu-15-20 uzovuka futhi afune isifuba. Uma umama engakunaki lokhu, umntwana angase ayeke ukuthola isisindo noma ngisho aqale ukulahlekelwa isisindo. Umntwana ophelile futhi ophelile angalala isikhathi eside kakhulu, lapho engeke abe namandla okukhala.
Ukulala isikhathi eside kungabonwa ezinganeni eziye zabeletha kakhulu futhi ekuqaleni kokuphila kwazo zathola imithi eminingi. Yiqiniso, unina osemncane ongenalwazi angase angazi lezi zingu-nuances. Ukuphuza ukulala komntwana kungabangela ubuhlungu besisu, ama-spasms kanye ne-colic. Ngenxa yalokhu, ngosuku lokuqala emva kokukhishwa, udokotela wezingane kufanele avakashele, futhi ngemva kwesonto - umhlengikazi ovakashele.
Noma kunjalo, kunamkhawulo wesikhathi esamukelekile, futhi sizowahambisa ngezansi:
- kuze kufike ezinyangeni ezimbili ubudala ingane kufanele ilele kusuka emahoreni angu-17 kuya kwangu-20 ngosuku;
- ingane kusukela ezinyangeni ezinhlanu kuya kwezingu-6 kufanele ilale kusukela emahoreni angu-12 kuya kwangu-16;
- umntwana oneminyaka eyodwa ulala amahora angu-12.
Imininingwane eminingi ingatholakala kuthebula elingezansi.
Bangaki abantwana abasanda kulala ebusuku?
Ingane encane, ivame ukuvusa ebusuku ukudla nokukhulumisana nabazali bayo, ngoba engakabeki umbuso. Futhi ukusiza ingane iphume umbuso wosuku, Yebo, umama nobaba kufanele. Okuthakazelisayo yiqiniso lokuthi izinyanga zokuqala ingane ingaphazamisi ukulala nomculo omkhulu, noma ukulungiswa efulethini eliseduze. Ngakho-ke, kungashiwo ukuthi ubuthongo obusana obusana alufani nokulala kwansuku zonke. Izikhathi eziphakathi kokuphakelayo ebusuku kulala kancane kancane, futhi cishe, ezinyangeni ezingu-4-6 ingane idla ebusuku kuphela kanye kuphela.
Ingabe kufanele ngilale umntwana osanda kuzalwa?
Abazali abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi umntwana kufanele abekwe ukulala, ngenkathi egoqa ezandleni zakhe, ehlabelela ingoma. Abahlengikazi bakholelwa ngokungaqondile ukuthi lokhu akufanele kwenziwe, ngoba esikhathini esizayo kuyoba nzima ukupakisha. Umntwana kufanele afunde ukulala embhedeni wakhe, ngakho-ke uzobe esejwayele ukuzimela.
Ukuze usebenze isimiso nsuku zonke ingane, kufanele uvusa ngezikhathi ezithile emini ukuze ebusuku alele. Kodwa ukuze ukondle umntwana akudingekile, uwubeke esifubeni sakhe kufanele kube ngokufunwa futhi ngokungafanele akudingi.
Ukunikeza ingane yakho ukulala okukhululekile, abazali kudingeka balandele amanye amathiphu:
- ukuhlanza okumanzi nsuku zonke nokushayela egumbini;
- ukugcina ukushisa okunethezeka (19-22ยบ) nomswakama ekamelweni (50-70%).
Ngakho-ke, isikhathi sokulala emntwaneni ngamunye singumuntu ngamunye futhi sincike ezintweni eziningi. Ngezinye izikhathi, isifo sokulala singabonisa ukuthi ingane ayikhululekile. Ezimweni ezinjalo, uzoveza ukunganeliseki kwakhe ngokungabikho kokulala, kodwa nangokukhala okukhulu.