Njengomthetho, emva kwenyanga cishe isimo sijwayelekile, futhi i-karapuz isivele iqala ukuxhumana nomama wayo futhi ayikwazi ukulala isikhathi eside. Nokho, lokhu akusiyo njalo indaba. Ukuze ungakhathazeki ngezibhamu, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi umntwana osanda kuzalwa udinga ukulala enyangeni eyi-1, nokuthi ngabe uthintana nodokotela uma isikhathi esiphelele sokulala sakhe sihluke kumagugu avamile.
Ukulala kwengane enyangeni engu-1
Umzimba wonke umntwana osanda kuzalwa, njengomuntu omdala, ungumuntu ngamunye. Naphezu kokuthi umsebenzi wezingane zonke ukulala nokudla, izidingo zabo zihlukile, yingakho ubude bokulala obudingekayo empilweni ejwayelekile nokuthuthukiswa okugcwele kungahlukana.
Phendula ngokucacile umbuzo wokuthi zingakanani amahora umntwana ozelwe usanda kulala enyangeni eyodwa, akunakwenzeka. Kukhona idatha ejwayelekile yezibalo ezamukelwa izinkomba ezijwayelekile. Njengomthetho, izinsana ezinyangeni zilele cishe amahora angu-18 ngosuku, noma kunjalo, leli xabiso lingahluka cishe amahora amabili, kokubili phezulu nangaphezulu.
Ubude bokulala ubusuku buxhomeke lapho ingane ilele khona nokuthi kunjani uhlobo lokudla. Ezimweni eziningi, omama, abondla izingane zabo ngamabele abo, balala nabo ndawonye. Esimweni esinjalo, ingane ngokuvamile ilala ebusuku kusukela emahoreni angu-8 kuya kwangu-9, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ingavuka izikhathi ezingu-8 ebusuku ukuze idle. Abanye omama abasha bayaqaphela ukuthi indodana yabo noma indodakazi yabo ebusuku isetshenziswa esifubeni njalo, yingakho bengenqaba ukulala ndawonye.
Uma ingane isesidlweni sokufakelwa, ubude bayo busuku, njengombuso, aludluli amahora angu-6-7. Ngalesi sikhathi, cishe kuzodingeka uvuke izikhathi ezimbili noma izikhathi ezintathu ukulungiselela ibhodlela labantwana ngengxube.
Ukulala kwansuku zonke kwezingane ezinyangeni ngokuvamile kuqukethe izikhathi ezingu-4-5, ubude obuphelele buzohluka emahoreni angu-7 kuya kwangu-10. Kulokhu, umbuso wosuku ngalolu daba lwakhiwe ngokuhlukile. Amanye abantwana ngokwawo alala nsuku zonke cishe ngesikhathi esifanayo futhi avuke cishe ngezikhathi ezifanayo, kuyilapho ezinye zibonakala zingenakulinganiswa ngokuphelele.
Kulesi sigaba, kufanele unake isikhathi sokulala, kodwa, ngokuphambene, ukuthi ingane ingalali isikhathi esingakanani ngenyanga. Ungavumeli ingane yakho ihlale iphapheme isikhathi esingaphezu kwehora, ngoba isalokhu kunzima kakhulu kulolu hlobo. Uma uqaphela ukuthi ingane yakho ingalali isikhathi eside, zama ukumbeka embhedeni ngokushesha, ngoba uma efika, kuyoba nzima kakhulu.
Ungacabangi ukuthi ukuziphatha kanye nomlingiswa wengane yakho kufanele uhambisane neminye imithetho nemigomo.
Uma ingane enyangeni ingabonakali izimpawu zokukhathazeka, idla kahle, inokushisa komzimba okuvumelekile nesihlalo esijwayelekile, futhi iqala ukubonisa kancane isithakazelo kubantu abadala nezihloko eziseduze naye-akukho lutho lokukhathazeka ngalo. Uma umntwana ekhononda njalo ephusheni futhi, ngokuvamile, kukukhathaza ngempilo yakho, ngokushesha uthintane nodokotela.