Ukuthuthukiswa kwengane ezinyangeni ezingu-4 - yini okufanele ikwazi ukuyenza?

Abazali abakhathalelayo baqaphelisisa impilo nokuthuthukiswa kwemvuthuluka kusukela ekuzalweni. Mhlawumbe bayokwazi ukuthi ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila kwabo umntwana uzobamangaza ngempumelelo emisha nsuku zonke. Kuwusizo kumama omncane ukugcina idayari lapho kudingeka khona ukuphawula izinguquko ekuphatheni kwekarapuza namakhono akhe amasha. Lokhu kuyimemori enhle iminyaka eminingi. Kodwa futhi ulwazi oluzosiza ekuhloleni ukuthuthukiswa kwengane ezinyangeni ezingu-4, ngakho-ke kuyasiza ukwazi kusengaphambili lokho okumele kwenziwe khona kule minyaka.

Ukuthuthukiswa komzimba

Izingane phakathi nale nkathi yokuphila kwazo ziqala ukubonisa umsebenzi. Abazali kufanele baqaphele, futhi bahlale bebuka ingane ngaso sonke isikhathi. Nasi uhlu lwamakhono ayisisekelo ukuthi i-karapuz izojabulisa abathandekayo bakho:

• ingane kufanele ibambe ikhanda lakhe;
• ngenkathi ingane ivuka, ngokuvamile ihamba iminyango ngokuzikhandla, futhi isazi indlela izihlobo ezihamba ngayo, ukunyakaza kuyaqina kakhulu;
• Uma umuntu ongaziwa evela eceleni kwakho, izingane zingase ziqaphe;
• kungashintsha kusuka esiswini kuya kwesinye;
• Izingane eziningi kule minyaka zenza imizamo yokuhlala phansi ngaphandle kokulala;
• okhuthele uzama ukuthola izinto ezimthandayo;
• Ngalesi sikhathi ezinye izingane ziqala ukuzama ukunqanda.

Ekuboneni kokuqala kungase kubonakale ukuthi ingane ezinyangeni ezingu-4 iyazi ukuthi ingenzi kanjani okuningi. Kodwa umbono onjalo uyiphutha. Kulowo muntu omncane wonke lawa makghono ayenempumelelo yangempela. Kuzosiza futhi ukwazi ukuthi izingane ezinyangeni ezingu-4 zingamazama ukubiza amanye ama-syllables, okungafanele kuthathwe njengamazwi okuqala.

Izingane zingahlala ziphapheme cishe amahora angu-2 ngokulandelana. Isikhathi esithile i-crumb iyakwazi ukuzibamba. Isibonelo, angabheka ithoyizi noma into.

Konke lokho ingane ingakwenza ezinyangeni ezingu-4, kusebenza ngokufanayo kubafana namantombazane. Izici zomuntu ngamunye zithinta ukuthuthukiswa kwengane, kepha ubulili abuyena indima ehola kulokhu, kodwa kuthinta imingcele yemvelo, njengokulinganisa, ukuphakama.

Ukuthuthukiswa komphakathi

Nazi amakhono namakhono angayithokozisa abazali bomzali:

• izingane eziningi zijabulela ukulalela umculo, zibonisa isithakazelo emisindweni emisha, inquma imithombo yazo;
• i-crumb ijabula ngokubona kwamathoyizi;
• ufunda izwi lomama nabathandekayo;
• Uthanda ukuthathwa ezandleni zakhe futhi agcinwe e-pos, okwenza kube lula ukuhlola konke okuzungezile;
• uqala ukusabela egameni lakhe;
• ukuzwakalisa, ukuxosha, ukuzama amathuba ezwi lakhe.

Ezinye izingane zihleka le minyaka, kodwa hhayi zonke. Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ingane ezinyangeni ezingu-4 ingabonisa injabulo ngokunyakaza okusebenzayo kwezandla, izinyawo.

Indlela yokuthuthukisa izingane ezinyangeni ezingu-4?

Njengamanje, kunezinqubo eziningi zokuthuthukiswa zakuqala, kanye nemidlalo efanele kanye nezinto zokuthuthukiswa. Omama abasha banesithakazelo kubo futhi bazimisele ukufaka isicelo sokukhuliswa kwengane yabo. Ngoba bazoba nesithakazelo sokuqonda ukuthi kufanelekile ukufundisa ingane ezinyangeni ezingu-4.

Ukwakha ubuntu obuvumelanayo kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhuluma nengane. Vumela sengathi kubonakale ukuthi omncane akaqondi lutho. Eqinisweni, ingane ilalelisisa abantu abadala futhi ibambe ngokushesha ukuthi ingxoxo. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ukubunjwa kwenkulumo efanele kuyadingeka kusukela ekuqaleni ubuntwana ukufunda okuningi kumntwana. Kodwa ukukhetha amabhuku kufanele kube ngokuhambisana nesikhathi sakhe. Abazali abazibuza ukuthi yini okufanele bafunde ingane ezinyangeni ezingu-4, ungakwazi ukweluleka ukuba unake imilolotelo yezingane kanye nezinkondlo ezilula. Ziyabonakala kalula njengeziqu, zisiza ukuthuthukiswa kwememori.

Kuwusizo ukufaka umculo omnandi kubantwana, ukuhlabelela izingoma zezingane kanye nezilahla. Xoxa ngezwi eliphansi kakhulu.

Noma kunjalo kuyadingeka ukuba ukhumbule, ukuthi ingane engakafiki isikhathi ezinyangeni ezingu-4 iyakwazi okuncane, kunalokho eyayizalwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, noma ngabe unyaka wokuphumelela kwabo kuyoba sekufana cishe.