Kukhona i-anecdote ngesihloko sokuhlela ubulili bomntwana, lapho owesifazane okhulelwe, ebuza ukuthi ungubani, uyaphendula: "Omunye walaba ababili: noma intombazane noma umfana". Ngempela, kunezinketho ezimbili nje kuphela, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kubaluleke kakhulu kubazali ukuthi izilindelo zabo zihambisana neqiniso. Njengomthetho, ingxenye enkulu ibhekene nokuhlelwa kwendodana, oye wabizwa ngokuthi uqhubeka nomndeni nesibongo. Ngakho-ke, emindenini lapho amantombazane azalwa khona emva komunye, abazali bavame ukukhathazeka ngombuzo othi "kanjani ukukhulelwa umfana ngendlela efanele?".
Kusukela esikhathini esidlule, ukunamathela ezimpawu ezikhethekile, ukudla, ukusetshenziswa kwezimo ezithile ngesikhathi sokulala ngokobulili kube izindlela endleleni yokuhlela umfana. Ukufunda okuhlangenwe nakho kookhokho, kungaphetha ngokuthi ezinye izimali zokuqaliswa kwalo mgomo ziye zabonakala zisebenza kahle. Kodwa-ke, njengoba ukukhulelwa kuyisenzo esiyingqayizivele somzimba, lapho iqanda likhetha ngokukhetha kuphela isidoda ngesethi engavumelekile yama-chromosome ocansi, akusilo ukukholelwa ukuthi into engaphandle ingathonya ukukhetha kwayo. Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yempumelelo yanamuhla yemithi, kungenzeka ukuthi i-IVF (Extra Extraction of Fertilization Corpuscular) iyatholakala, indlela yokuxazulula umbuzo: "Ungamkhulela kanjani umfana?".
Yini okufanele uyenze ukuze ukhulelwe umfana?
Ayikho indlela, ngaphandle kwe-IVF, eqinisekisa ukuthi ngenxa yesicelo sayo umfana uzokhulelwa, noma kunjalo, kungenzeka ukwandise amathuba okuba umcimbi ngosizo lwe:
- Ukudla okukhethekile. Ungahlela kanjani umfana ngokushintsha isabelo ngaphambi kokukhulelwa? Amaviki amabili ngaphambi komzuzu odlule wokubeletha, kuyadingeka ukucebisa imenyu yabesifazane ngemikhiqizo enjengokuthi: izithelo, izinsuku, ama cherry, amazambane, amakhowe, i-lentils. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunconywa ukunciphisa ukusetshenziswa kwesaladi eluhlaza, iklabishi, i-cocoa, amantongomane nemikhiqizo yobisi.
- Ukuhlela usuku lokukhulelwa. Yiziphi izinsuku okungenzeka ukuthi kungenzeka ukukhulelwa umfana, kunqunywa yizici zokuhamba kanye nesikhathi sokuphila kwe-spermatozoa. Njengoba i-spermatozoa ethwala isakhi sofuzo ekukhulelweni komfana iyasebenza kakhulu ngosuku lokuqala, isenzo socansi kufanele silungiselelwe ngosuku lokuvuthwa. Lesi yisikhathi esihle lapho ungakhulelwa khona umfana.
- Itafula lokuhlela phansi. Lolu hlelo lwakhiwa ngokucabangela ubudala bomama (inyanga nonyaka wokuzalwa) kanye nenyanga elinganisiwe yokuzalwa kwengane. Kuyasiza ukunquma ukuthi iyiphi inyanga yokuthola umfana ephakeme.
- Isitezi ukuhlela ngegazi. Uma kungcono ukukhulelwa umfana, kusiza ukuthola indlela yokubala ukuvuselelwa kwegazi. Kukholelwa ukuthi igazi lesifazane livuselelwa njalo eminyakeni emithathu, kanye nangemva kokubeletha nokuhlinzwa. Emadodeni - njalo eminyakeni emine futhi emva kokuhlinzwa. Ukuhlukaniswa kweminyaka yobudala kwabazali ngamunye ngo-3 no-4, ngokulandelana, kwenza kube lula ukukhomba amathuba okuzalwa komntwana oyedwa noma omunye, kuye ngokuthi ubani ozoba nomphumela omkhulu ngenxa yokubala. Ubani ongaphezu kwalolu nani, ingane izozalwa ngaleyo ndlela. I-Rh factor engalungile kumuntu wesifazane ishintsha umphumela ohlukile.
- Izindlela zabantu. Ngokwesibonelo, eRussia YaseKorea kwakukholelwa ukuthi ukuhlela ubulili bomntwana kuthinteka ukukhathala komunye wabazali. Uma kwenzeka umama ekhathele kakhulu
indodana yazalwa, futhi uma uyise ewa ngaphambi kokukhulelwe, bese kuthi ezinyangeni ezingu-9 indodakazi yazalwa.
Indlela yokukhulelwa abafana ababili?
Amathuba okubeletha amakhwenyana amawele aphezulu kulabo abashadile abanesabelo esivela ngaphesheya. Lokhu kusho ukuthi, ngesikhathi sokuzalwa, isikhathi sokuzalwa kwamawele (ngokuvamile ngezizukulwane), phakathi kwamakhulu-ugogo, ugogo, njll kufanele kuqashelwe. Nokho, iqiniso lokuthi ukuthambekela okunjalo akuqinisekisi ukuzalwa kwamantombazane amabili. Vele uqinisekise ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwabo kungaba kuphela indlela ye-ECO.