Ukuhlelwa kwezinhlanzi kuyisiko lasendulo esisiza ukwenza isinqumo esifanele ngezinkinga nezinkinga ekuphileni. Kunezindlela eziningi zokwazi ikusasa lakho, kodwa ngaphambi kokufunda ukuqagela ngekusasa noma ngothando, kufanele ufunde imithetho evamile yokubhula.
Indlela yokufunda ukuqagela: imithetho eyisisekelo
Ukuze uzuze impendulo eyiqiniso emibuzweni yakho, funda ukuqagela ngemithetho. Okokuqala, ungalokothi ucabange ngokujabulisa noma ngokusheshisa. Lena umsebenzi ojulile, odinga isimo sengqondo esikhethekile, ukuhlushwa nokuthula. Ngaphambi kokubhula, kuyafaneleka ukuba uhlale wodwa futhi ufundeke kuwo. Kuphikisana nokuqagela ekudakwa ngokweqile noma ngokweqile, ne-TV ehlanganisiwe, ukudlala umculo.
Izimfanelo zokutshela imali (amabalazwe, ama-runes, izinhlamvu zemali, njll.) Amathuluzi akho okusebenza, okumele uphathwe ngayo ngenhlonipho. Ngeke ukwazi ukudlulisela kwabanye abantu, uwasebenzise nganoma yiziphi izinhloso, isibonelo, udlale. Gcina amathuluzi okubhula endaweni ehlukile, ebhokisini noma esikhwameni.
Ukuchazwa kwemiphumela yokubhula
Inqubo yokubhula, izimpendulo zifika kumuntu kusukela kumininingwane yolwazi yendawo yonke, kusukela engqondweni yakhe. Konke okubikezelwe kungenye yezinto ezihlukahlukene zokuthuthukiswa kwemicimbi, futhi ukubikezelwa kwenhlanhla kwenzeka kuphela uma izimo ezikhona zigcinwa, okungukuthi, zifanele kuphela kuleli phuzu ngesikhathi.
Iphuzu lesibini elibalulekile ukuchazwa kwelokubikezelwa. Kuningi lokumemezela kwezimpawu uma uqagela ngekhofi, izakhiwo - ngokuqagela ikhadi, njll. Kodwa-ke, izimpendulo ezilungele kuphela ukuthi kufanele zikholwe, ngoba i-Universe kuleli cala ikhuluma nawe, hhayi kumqambi wokuhumusha. Isibonelo, i-Queen of Spades cishe ihlotshaniswa nengozi. Kodwa uma ungabangeli imizwelo emibi, udinga ukulalela ukucabangisisa kwakho.
Isiphetho kulokho okushiwo ngenhla sinye: umuntu angafunda ukuqagela ngemithetho, kodwa inhliziyo izokusiza ukuba uhumushe imiphumela. Kholelwa wena kanye namandla akho, ithuthukise intuition yakho kanye nekhono lokugxila, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzofunda ukuqagela!