I-Etiquette idlala indima enkulu ekukhuliseni kwezingane. Ngenxa yemithetho ehlanganisiwe kusukela ebuntwaneni, ikhula ihloniphekile, futhi iyaqonda indlela yokuziphatha kulokhu noma leso simo. Yonke inkimbinkimbi iqukethe kuphela ukuthi ingane idinga ukuletha kahle yonke imithetho. Kungcono ukwenza lokhu ngendlela edlalwayo. Ngokwemithetho ebulawe ingane kufanele idunyiswe ukuze ihlanganise impumelelo yayo.
Ukuziphatha kulawula etafuleni
Ukuziphatha kwabantwana etafuleni akufani neze nemithetho yabantu abadala. Ungayidluliseli ngolwazi olungadingekile okwamanje, isibonelo, umehluko phakathi kwamafoloko, izibuko kanye nokukwazi ukusebenzisa ummese. Ingane idinga ukwazi imithetho eyisisekelo, ukuze ingadli lutho, ingangcolisi yona futhi enye, futhi ingabeki futhi yanikeza umsebenzi omncane ukuhlanza itafula, ayidla.
Phakathi kwemithetho esemqoka kungase kuphawulwe:
- Ukuhlala phansi etafuleni bese uqala ukudla kuyadingeka kubo bonke;
- ngaphambi kokudla, udinga ukubeka i-napkin emadolweni akho, ukuze ungadli izingubo zakho;
- Ukudla kuyadingeka ngomlomo ovaliwe;
- awukwazi ukukhuluma ngomlomo wakho ugcwele;
- ungasuka etafuleni ngemuva kwemvume yabantu abadala noma ndawonye nabo bonke abantu.
Abazali akudingeki nje bachaze ingane le mithetho, kodwa futhi babonise ukugcwaliseka kwabo ngesibonelo sabo. Kungcono uma ukudla nokudla kudluliselwa.
Isiqu sokukhuluma izingane
Umbuzo wezimiso zokuxhumana zezingane awusizo ngaphansi kwazo zonke ezinye izimiso zokuziphatha. Ingane kufanele ifundiswe inhlonipho ngabadala futhi imfundise ukuveza inhlonipho ngamazwi. Isibonelo, owokuqala ozobonga abantu abadala, ungangeni ezingxoxweni zabantu abadala, qiniseka ukuthi uzokubambisana nabo. Kodwa-ke, inhlonipho kumongo wokukhulumisana, akumele abonise abadala kuphela, kodwa nakontanga yakhe, kanye nezingane ezingaphansi kwakhe.
Ingane kufanele ikwazi amagama anjalo okubonga, njengoba ngiyabonga futhi sicela. Uma enecala lokuthile, kufanele axolise kulabo abacasulayo.
I-label ye-Guest yezingane
Esikhathini sohlaka lwesitatimende sesivakashi, abazali kufanele bachazele ingane yabo ukuthi baziphathe kanjani njengezivakashi nezivakashi zendawo. Imithetho eyisisekelo yezingane ihlanganisa okulandelayo:
- izivakashi akudingeki zihambe ngaphandle kwesimemo;
- ungahlali isikhathi eside emcimbini;
- hamba ukuvakashela kuphela ngomzwelo omuhle;
- umeme izivakashi ukuba zifike kusengaphambili;
- wamukele kakhulu izivakashi futhi unake zonke izivakashi.
Imidlalo yezingane ku-label
Ezinganeni ezincane ezingakakwazi ukufunda, imidlalo namathekisthi kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokunikeza izimiso zokuziphatha. Ukuwafunda ngamaqhawe enza izenzo ezingalungile futhi ahluleke kuwo, abazali basiza ingane ukuba ikwazi ukuqonda imithetho eyisisekelo yokuziphatha. Usizo oluhle kulolu daba yimithetho ehlongozwayo kwifomu lezinkondlo.
Ukuze uthole imidlalo, ungakhetha futhi amathoyizi namadonki lapho ingane ngokwayo ingasebenza njengomfundisi. Imidlalo enjalo iyamnandi ezinganeni ngoba akudingeki ukuba abe umfundi olalelayo.
Ukufundisa izingane zokuziphatha ngesikhathi esisebekhulile nakho kungenzeka ngokudlala. Isibonelo, izingane zinganikezwa eminye yemithetho ebhalwe ephepheni, futhi ukuqhubeka komthetho ngamunye izingane kuzodinga ukuthola ngokuzimela.