Ngokusho komthetho wamanje, kungenzeka ukubhalisa ingane kokubili endaweni yokuhlala kowesifazane nobaba. Uma abazali bezinhlanzi bezoshada ngokusemthethweni ngesikhathi esifanayo futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, babhalisiwe endaweni efanayo, ngeke kube nezinkinga - umntwana uzobe eshiwo lapha ngaphandle kwemibandela.
Phakathi naleso sikhathi, kunezinhlobo eziningi ezihlukahlukene ezingathinta kakhulu isimo. Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukunikeza umntwana osanda kuzalwa kumntwana, nokuthi angayenza kanjani phambi kwezimo ezahlukene.
Indlela yokumisa ingane esanda kuzalwa kuyise, uma abazali bengabhalisiwe ndawonye?
Isimo esivame kakhulu lapho abazali beba ngokomyeni indoda nomfazi, kodwa abhalisiwe ndawonye. Khona-ke umama nobaba kufanele bafaka ngesikhathi esifanayo ehhovisi lepasipoti ekhelini lokubhalisa likababa bese belethela yonke imiqulu edingekayo, okungukuthi:
- isicelo esivela kupapapa ngesicelo sokubhalisa i-crumb;
- isitatimende esivela kumama, lapho kufanele akhombise ukuthi akaphazamisi ukuhlala;
- isitifiketi esivela ekhelini lokubhaliswa komama, eqinisekisa ukuthi umntwana osanda kubhaliswa engabhaliswanga khona;
- ama-passports asanda kuba ubaba nomama;
- isitifiketi sokuzalwa semvuthu.
Ukubhaliswa kwendodana noma indodakazi esanda kuzalwa ekhelini lokubhalisa lomama nobaba likhululekile ngokuphelele, ngeke kudingeke ukhokhe noma yimaphi amarisidi. Ezinsukwini ezintathu zokusebenza emva kokuba isicelo sithunyelwe, uzokwazi ukuthola idokhumenti ekubhaliseni ilungu elisha lomndeni wakho, futhi kakade umuntu angayenza.
Ngisho noma umninikazi osemthethweni wendawo yokuhlala, lapho ubaba wengane ebhaliswe khona, ungomunye umuntu, futhi akavumelani nokubhaliswa kwengane, lokhu akukwazi ukukuvimbela ukuba ubhalise imvuthu lapho. Ngokuvamile, akufanele, ngokuyisisekelo, ubuze umnikazi noma amanye amalungu omndeni, ngisho nalawo abhalisiwe kuleli kheli.
Isimo esifanayo esifanayo sivela uma umama nobaba wengane behlala emshadweni okuthiwa "umbuso", kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo upapa, ngokufaka isicelo sakhe, waqaphela ngokomthetho indodana noma indodakazi yakhe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane banombuzo wokuthi ngabe ubaba angabhalisa ngokuzimela ingane, uma umama engenawo ithuba lokuxhumana neziphathimandla ezifanele naye. Lokhu kungenzeka ngaphandle kokushicilelwa kwemibhalo eyengeziwe kuphela uma abazali abasha beshadile ngokomthetho futhi babhalisiwe endaweni eyodwa. Kuzo zonke ezinye izimo nangaphansi kwezinye izimo, imvume yomama, efakazelwe ehhovisi lika-notary, kuyodingeka inikelwe.
Ungabhalisa kanjani ingane endaweni yokuhlala kababa, engacacisiwe esitifiketi sokuzalwa?
Emindenini yanamuhla kaningi kunesimo lapho kukholomu "ubaba" ezitifiketi zokuzalwa zemvuthu kunesidingo. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ngemva kwesikhathi umama angase afune ukubhalisa umntwana endlini kababa wakhe.
Njengoba i-crumb ingenayo idokhumenti, ayikwazi ukubhaliswa ngokomthetho endaweni yakhe yokuhlala. Ukuze afeze isifiso sakhe, umama kufanele afake isicelo enkantolo ngesitatimende mayelana nokusungulwa kobunikazi. Kuphela uma kwenzeka sithola isinqumo esihle segunya lesigwebo singakwazi ukukhuluma ngokubhaliswa kwengane efulethini likababa ophilayo.